Location: PA USA
Sorry if the flair is incorrect. Honestly no idea what this falls under. I just need help.
This just escalated so I’m sorry if this is really badly written. My husband and I have been on mediocre terms for a while and been fighting a lot. He has threatened things in the past (e.g. killing himself, killing people around me etc.) and now he has threatened to come home tomorrow after work, take one of my cats (his microchip is in my name, so is his insurance and he also is under my name at the vet. I pay for all of the cats expenses too) and leave. Move out. Just like that.
I don’t know what to do now. It’s late at night and I don’t know if I should call the cops in the morning and not let him in. Or call them before and ask them to be there. Have his stuff ready at the door.
Bit even if so, under what grounds can i stop him from entering the apartment again? At any point?
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It seems that he is mentally unstable. Can you get a 5150 hold on him? He is threatening to unlive himself. Also are you safe? You have to protect yourself and your pet and get out of there
Call your local domestic violence center as soon as it is practical to do so. They will give you support and resources for your specific situation in your specific circumstances.
Please don’t think this isn’t serious enough. Threats of self harm and using pets to threaten and manipulate is serious. Prioritize yourself and make this call ASAP.
Domestic violence wise, he sounds like he’s on the cusp of violence. Either lock yourself in or leave
Can you leave right now with your cat and any important documents? He sounds unhinged and you need to make sure you are safe. This number is 24/7, confidential and there are also text options. Call now. https://www.thehotline.org