Husband went out with his new friends tonight.. one hour later my friend (F) called me to ask if I was also going out.. she said my husband called her to see if she wanted to go out tonight with his friends…
I told her no he didn’t call me because i told him I was too tired to go out tonight which of course is a lie.. I was ashamed and i really don’t understand why he did this..
these friends he went out with are new , he met them few months ago.. but he never even once mentioned that he wanted me to meet them he always go out alone with them.
why would he call her knowing that she would tell me everything !!!
ps 2. yes she is our mutual friend but she’s more mine than his lately
ps3. the 3 of us went out yesterday for dinner
tonight he decided he didn’t want me !!! I’m speechless
I really feel bad its like he’s ashamed of me for whatever reason… and I really don’t know what to do !!
i know that if i ask him about it he will just say Iam exaggerating and he did nothing wrong!!
Am I exaggerating?
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Sounds suspicious. If he wanted you to meet them, he would have included you.
You’re not exaggerating, your feelings are real, and being left out like that would hurt anyone. It’s not just about going out, it’s the secrecy and the shift in how he’s including or excluding you. You deserve to be part of his life, not sidelined in it.
Man I would have showed up immediately to find out whats going on.
Whoa,not cool on his part. Let’s reverse the situation and see how he feels. Confront him and don’t let him down play with that BS.
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You should not have lied to her. You should have told the truth so she had your back. It would have been great if you showed up with her when they met up—or at her house when husband went to pick her up.
Maybe he’s trying to set one of his friends up with your friend or, vice versa