I got my hymectomy on May 12th. The surgery was super easy. I had no pain or discomfort at all. I honestly couldn’t even tell I got surgery. Since then I had my post-op appointment on May 11. Which was also very easy. After I was clearned. I’ve been doing some exploring. I’ve been able to insert my finger as well as my boyfriends who’s finger is twice the size as mine. With no pain. I’ve also been able to use tampons. I had a mircoperforate hymen so none of that was possible before this surgery without excruciating pain. I still have nerves and struggle with the psychological part since l’ve had a lot of painful experiences due to my hymen. I want to start exploring sex and other things. I’m honestly really proud of myself for doing things like fingers and tampons. I never thought those things would be possible. I was wondering if anyone can tell me their experience with sex after their hymenectomy and if anyone has tips for the psychological part of it. 🙂