When young boys get taken advantage by “attractive” women, there’s this overall theme of “lucky kid” in the comments. Women will point out how awful it is but men are like why would he tell anyone?? It’s disgusting cause if the roles were reversed, they’ll threaten people with 💀. They don’t understand the effects on the mind of a boy when they are taken advantage of like that.
I take this personally because I’m a victim of this growing up. It messed up my preference with women, hooking up and sex drive. Some days I feel used and never felt good enough in relationships. Emotionally I’m trying to fix this. I just know men who go through that probably never get help or even look within themselves to accept what happened.
It bothers me a lot to see this fetishization. If you say it’s disgusting when a girl is a victim, then you should say the same to a boy. Context and your preference be damned.