Yep. I want to break up with my bf. We’ve been in relationship for 4 months now. I’ve realized it back then, like after 1 month of our relationship, that I haven’t moved on from my ex. So I tried to break up at that very moment of realization but he kept bringing me back to him. Well now I am very serious about this break up but he isn’t letting me go and I don’t want to hurt him. We talked about my feelings towards my ex before our relationship started. I also don’t like when I am kissing him. Like I LOVE kissing. But with him any physical intimacy isn’t well it doesn’t feel extraordinary it’s just fine. Apart from that he’s a great guy. Buys me gifts, respects me, takes care of me.
How do I break up in the least hurtful way?
I (18 F) want to break up with my (19M) bf
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Just tell him the truth. You feel it’s not fair to him to continue when you still have feelings for someone else
I’d break up with him, and work on yourself.
Are you being held hostage or something? You do not like him. You are not physically attracted to him, and yes, that’s hurtful, but it’s the reality. The truth is nicer than a cop out. Y’all are young, you’ll move on and it will be okay ❤️
Be blunt, and straight forward.
Doesn’t mean you have to be mean about it, but tell him youre not attracted to him anymore romantically or physically.
Be upfront with him. Break it, leave, never look back. Block or unfollow him. Don’t play games with the part of him that wants you. It’ll be better for both of you if you just disappear. You get your peace, and he gets his.