A female friend (19F) was staying over in my room, when visiting my city. She put herself on me, started grinding and stuff. Even when i told her no, she kept going. took out my penis and started doing shit with it as i kept saying lets go to sleep. Then finally, she started emotionally blackmailing me and i gave in and helped her finish. I didnt even ejaculate. Fuck. was this even rape? wasted my virginity. This was so traumatic, what should i do?
I (18M) got raped as a guy?
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That’s rape OP. She didn’t take anything from you, you didn’t consent. You should go to the police.
Report her to the police and cut her out of your life completely if you’re able. I hope you heal from this as soon as possible. You didn’t consent, so it is rape. Wishing you the best, take care.
Thats rape. Go to law enforcement
You could text her tell her how you feel and depending on how she responds you might get proof
Tell the police your statement! Sorry that happened to you, shit is terrible.
Im so sorry. I’m M26 and something similar happened to me when I was 21. Even though you don’t have proof I would go to the police. Block her but save any messages thay you think will help the police. Just remember it is NOT your fault and just because you are a guy doesn’t mean you can’t get raped. Rape is rape.
That’s def rape and on a totally unrelated note I can’t take you seriously with your name being “blacknggerfries”
Definitely sounds like rape… So sorry this happened to you
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I swear these scenarios are made up because this is a super black and white story
Yeah you were raped since you didn’t consent. You told her no and she still continued. I’m sorry😭
i dont have any advice i just thought your username was interesting
Kids are pussies nowadays I swear
I’ve been raped twice. It’s confusing for sure
You didn’t want and she went on anyway. It’s rape.
Do only what feels comfortable and comforting for you i also highly recommend going to therapy to help you prosses this event (best with someone with specific knowledge of this subject)
You can go to authorities, but consider that it will not be easy. So think about if you are prepared for this battle.
There are some hot lines for sexual assault victims in many places. I don’t know where you live but im sure a quick Google search will have the information. They
can assist you
Contact the police. Be firm, be blindly open, and very honest. If it’s weighing on you in any way, you need to mention it. Sadly there’s issues with people believing in men getting raped by women, so you need to make it abundantly clear that it happened, it’s affected you, and that you wouldn’t be wasting your time if this didn’t happen. Leave no room for doubt in anyone, and I hope you get the justice you deserve.
Your body was touched in a way you didn’t consent to. That’s assault. Your body was used for sex in a way you didn’t agree to. That’s rape. Evidence or not, report it
Imma tell you straight up if you go to the law she will just lie on you like you did way worse to her and its just not ending well. Just cut her off completely.
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Yes op, this is rape. I’m so sorry you went through this. My best advice to you is report her to the police and cut her out of your life completely. Remember this is not your fault at all so please don’t feel like it is. She should’ve stopped when that first no came out of your mouth. Sending my love to you.
Yes, that’s rape. Women don’t think anything of sexual assault because they assume all men want it.
Tell those close to you if you’re comfortable it’s good to have support. I’m sorry that happened to you man but it’s important to remember that you give your virginity willingly, it can NEVER be taken. You are still a virgin