so me and my angel of a boyfriend connected naturally and have been flourishing all these past months. We have crossed so so many hurdles we never thought we would, lot of bad days, ample of good days but for the past 1.5 month something is just not feeling right. We fight/argue almost everyday, actually 6/7 days in a week goes by arguing which ends up ruining the other one’s mood because of which rest of the day goes like a shit and sometimes is carried to the next day as well, though neither of us address this, but we do notice. Its not like the spark has faded away or we don’t love each other, I could die for him and I still love him so very much and I know the same goes for him as well. We both really want to be stable and have the peace we both deserve from each other. When he tells me about his other friends being in a relationship where they dont argue and live a peaceful life, I get hella jealous and feel bad that I am not able to make this relationship work now. I have a very vibrant chirpy personality, I talk alot and would instantly light up a dead room. I wanted someone who would make me bath with love every second, who would love me like the air he breathes, which he was but off lately, its not like he doesn’t love me, but I would say, he became someone like me, who would show tantrums over stupid issues, who would reply in an offensive way, as if I wasn’t enough to be doing that and he should’ve been the one who would make me calm. But thats not the case, we both have been arguing over stupid things with no one knowing how to amend the shit and we just know how to counter each other. We both keep on asking each other back and forth throughout the day as to what happened, to no avail.
One thing I would like to add as I consider this a really big factor: Since the beginning of our relationship, he has this friend group of some girls from which I was really insecure of, but with time I understood his relation with them and I am not insecure anymore. But all these months, Ive created so much fuss related to them, so much of drama caused by them, that there exists this knot between us because of external people existing between us. YEAAH, I agree there exists a lot of influence of third parties between us, sometimes I got jealous of him going out with them, I on the other hand hardly hangout with guys. But this issue has been resolved as I no longer seek him to amend a distance from his girlies and ive understood.
But this arguing, or this SOMETHING not FEELING RIGHT between us has to go away.
Someone with any experience, any suggestions, please help.
TL;DR We’ve been having nasty arguments with no importance howsoever almost everyday for the past 1.5 months and it seems to just not go away.