I (19M) sometimes get in my head about breaking up with my girlfriend (19F) even tho i know i wouldnt want to

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I feel like this just makes me a bad boyfriend, but i dont know. Sometimes, especially late at night when im alone with my own thoughts, i start thinking about certain small problems in our relationship that aren’t worth breaking up over, but i mull over it anyway. I don’t feel like this all the time, especially when I’m spending time with her, and the thoughts never even cross my mind. Is it normal to sometimes miss aspects of being single even though I wouldn’t want to leave her? Does this make me a bad person for having these thoughts?

Tl;dr: sometimes have thoughts about leaving my gf, even though i don’t want to

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  1. postpunkghoul Avatar

    What are the types of issues that you’re mulling over at night repeatedly?

    Extra context helps determine whether these issues actually need to be worked on or if they’re just things exaggerated by stress/anxiety.