I (20 F) and my boyfriend (22 M) aren’t compatible

r/

We have been dating for over three years now.I am more of a free spirit that wants to have an adventurous life, try different things, travel on low budget, make stupid reels, isolate, cry whenever, laugh out loud, etc., while he is the calm one who aims for a stable, settling life, no input in hangouts, travel to bhool hi jao, doesn’t approve isolation. My validations aren’t enough.But we claim that we love each other and hence the three years ig.
Our human values are perfect including respect, kindness and everything else.

TL;DR:Does love matters more than compatibility?