We have been dating for 3 years and he has been nothing but amazing to me. He’s a gentleman, funny, handsome, intelligent and i love spending time with him.
However I just simply cannot fully trust him because he is a man. Because of that I feel like he’ll never be able to fully grasp my experiences and understand/care about them. And therefore he’ll never be able to understand who I am outside of just being his girlfriend.
I have this underlying disgust for myself because I feel like he just uses me for when he wants to get off even though I know thats not true. I find myself racked with shame for feeling like this for virtually no reason but it’s something I have not been able to shake.
once again he has given me no reason to feel this way. And I feel guilty because I’m essentially grouping him in with men who just use their girlfriends and secretly hate them.
What do I do?
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TL;DR —> I don’t trust my boyfriend because he is a man & idk what to do about it.
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it sounds like this has very little to nothing to do with him and everything to do with something that happened in your past. you talk to a therapist about it so it does not impact your relationship.