Like the title says, I’ve been frustrating my boyfriend when it comes to having sex. I feel bad about it and want the experience to be easier and more pleasurable for my boyfriend. I don’t know why but my hips hurt and lock when I get on my knees. I always slip and end up laying down. I know it’s been frustrating for him and I’d like to be in that position but it hurts my hips and I can’t stay where he wants me. Is there some kind of stretch I can do? I also have this issue where I have a hard time getting aroused and need to use a vibrator. He is absolutely wonderful, I’m very sexually attracted to him and I love him so much,but the act of sex and stimulating myself feels difficult. I don’t want to have any issues and I’ve never felt this way about someone before, I want to marry him one day. I feel pretty guilty about that because my boyfriend said none of his previous partners have had to use one. Not bragging just giving a description but my (bits) are very small compared to my size (I’m 5”10 150). I sometimes struggle to find my own clit when I’m alone. I don’t know how to be present in my body when I have sex. I’ve asked doctors about this and it’s always brushed off. Are there any positions that would let me use a vibrator and also be pleasurable for him? It hits him when I use it and it’s painful for him.