I (23 F) cant contain my horniness around my (24 M ) boyfriend of 3 years when i come over to his house. Am i doing too much?
Hi, it’s currently july 4th and i’m in bed with my boyfriend of a few years. We don’t live together but every night i do stay over, i get this overwhelming feeling of wanting to jump on his dick and just freak him out. I want to rip his clothes off and just make him cum like he never has before. I get this feeling everytime we’re alone and he completely disregards me because he’s tired. We’re both young, i want to get freaked tf out but the energy is never reciprocated. I’m so horny i don’t know what to do. I keep rubbing my ass on his dick, holding his hand and he barely lays an arm around me without giving me any attention. It may come off wrong but yes i want attention badly from him, i’m not pushing him to sex but even just some sort of excitement back would feel so nice. I’m so horny everytime i’m over and im just starting to feel so bad about it like damn does he not want me. His phone is full of my nudes he some he takes of me but when im here it’s like where is the energy. I just want dick bad. I dont know what to do
Is there any thing i can do to correct this behavior of mine?
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Ever consider becoming a writer?
There’s a huge market for fanfics.
Also, there’s no way a dude didn’t draft this post to bait engagement.
See a sex therapist. Or maybe not make troll posts.
Watch “black snake moan”
Talk with a counsellor or a therapist, I am pretty sure there is an underlying problem if you are literally always horny. That’s not normal.
Once you rule that out, you need to figure out if you and your partner are sexually compatible.
It may just be that he doesn’t want you because you make yourself too available / appear needy. This is generally unattractive to many people. Once you reserve your initiating for moments when you feel he’s also horny, this may change.
May also be that he just has a lower sex drive. If it is extremely important to you, you may eventually want to look for another partner
Just tell him that you would like for him to put some more passion into it, that’s what you’re into. Show him this post!