TL;DR : My boyfriend and his friends went to a rub and tug with his friends before we started dating. I feel weird whenever he goes out with them now.
I (F24) have been dating my boyfriend (M24) for 3 years now. He went to a rub and tug with his friends a month or so before we started dating. It still makes me feel weird when he goes out with that group of friends. I’m not sure if his friends go presently because he hasn’t mentioned it and I never asked. I think it’s important to say this but I have trust issues and have had trust issues my whole life. My parents divorced because my mom cheated on my dad and I’m always so scared whenever he isn’t around me. He’s never cheated on me to my knowledge. There have been some odd behaviours here and there but I also am always watching out for weird behaviour because I’m paranoid so if you’re looking for it, you’re also going to find it and I know this. What do I do? Is it weird that I don’t trust that group of friends or is it justified?
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Since I’m not going to look it up given the results I would get, is this literally a groups of friends who went and jerked each other off??
fix your trust issues before dating. even he was the perfect partner, you’d never be relieved.