Hello everyone
I’ve been married for about 3 years and some change and have known my wife since may 2021, we were dating for 9 months till we got married and she moved in with me And my family, she was an amazing person and always made me feel satisfied and secure in life, but lately it’s been falling apart, I even broke it off about a week ago after talking to her repeatedly about our problems, my dad helped us fix it, but it didn’t last long till she did something else not good. ofc ik I’m not perfect but if i make any issues it doesn’t affect anyone else, or maybe just bothers my wife a bit but when she has problems it affects my whole family and makes the house very tense. Fortunately I have the best father and brother ever. My dad is 53 and my brother is 19 but surprisingly wise and smart both of them are. Anyway I have a family of 5 49 mom, dad, me 22 sister, brother in that order age. When we first moved in my sister had some health problems and we all worked a lot so we couldn’t properly care for her so she lived with my grandma for a while, she’d come over and spend alot of time with us but not super consistent, we are all very close tho. Since she moved back in a couple months ago, for some reason my wife has started having all these little ridiculous issues, like someone will say they don’t like a show and she happens to like it and has a meltdown, she’ll start acting funny and be quite and cold and with me will just make everything a big deal. Lately the person she has been over that last couple months is completely different and I think this might be the end, from what I’ve said so far has anyone had something similar, I’m also open to discussing in more detail or adding another post if I get questions
TL;DR this post is about me and my wife and how we have problems and it might be the end of the relationship
Comments
You’re gonna have to get a place of your own. It would be extremely difficult to make any marriage work living in a house full of people. You have no privacy and your issues as a couple shouldn’t be everyone else’s issues too. Everyone else also shouldn’t know all of your business. You need privacy and the opportunity to actually be the only two people in your relationship, not an entire group of people.
You got married young and you’re still living with your entire family. It sounds like maybe you weren’t ready for a serious commitment. Getting married after 9 months is really quick in my opinion.
i 24m married 3 years wife 24f things are falling apart we dated 9 months before marriage she used to make me feel secure but lately small issues blow up and affect the whole family i broke up once but got back together things havent improved her behavior changed since my sister moved back in she gets cold over small things and makes everything a big deal i feel this might be the end open to advice or discussion