I (25/F) feel like my friendship (25/F) is one-sided, especially now that I’m getting married. Should I talk to her or let it fade?

Hi everyone,

I’m (25/F) and getting married in 3 months. Something recently happened with a close friend (also 25/F) that made me question our friendship of 15 years. I’d really appreciate advice on whether I should bring it up or just let the friendship fade out.

We’ve been close for years, but I’ve started noticing a pattern: most of our conversations revolve around her—her dating life, guys at the gym, relationship drama, etc. I’ve always been a supportive friend and happy to listen, but when I try to share something meaningful, the energy isn’t the same.

The moment that made me pause was when I told her (via text) that I found my dream wedding dress. I was so excited. Her only response was
“loveEe” and then she immediately started talking about her upcoming vacation with her boyfriend. It felt like she brushed off something really important to me.

It made me realize this isn’t a new pattern—it’s just the first time it’s really hurt. I didn’t respond, and we haven’t talked since.

So now I’m stuck between two choices:
1. Do I reach out and express how I’ve been feeling about the imbalance in the friendship?
2. Or do I just let things naturally fade and focus on the people who genuinely support me, especially with the wedding coming up?

Has anyone dealt with something similar? What helped you decide how to handle it?

Thanks in advance.

TL;DR: I’ve been friends with someone for about 15 years, but I’m realizing our friendship feels one-sided—she talks mostly about herself and dismisses my important moments. When I told her I found my dream wedding dress, she gave a quick reply and changed the subject to her vacation. It really hurt. I’m not sure if I should bring it up or just let the friendship fade. Advice?