So as the tittle says, I found my boyfriend’s fake Snapchat where he has probably close to 100 friends who are all male. I found some saved messages of him talking about sucking each other off but no kissing and talking about meeting up. I don’t know if this has happened, I feel so caught off guard and it seems to have started when I was 7 months pregnant. I’m now 3 months pp and seems like it happens whenever we get into fights, in which he doesn’t talk to me for a week sometimes longer. I also found pictures of him wearing my dresses or my tight pants. I truly don’t know what to think or how to go about this, I think I will keep it to myself but I’m just wondering if anybody has experienced this before and what does it mean??
I also found that he’s been sending these men nudes.
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Bro wtf 😂😂😂
What’s the issue here that he’s cheating or that he’s cheating with men?
No kissing so no homo it’s not cheating
> I’m just wondering if anybody has experienced this before and what does it mean??
I’ve never experienced this before, but I know one thing it means is that your baby daddy is gay or bisexual, and is a cheat (at least emotionally, if not sexually). My advice is to schedule a doctor’s appointment for a full STD test as soon as possible.
Leave him what the fuck??? Do you really want a cross dressing man that gets his dick sucked by men or vice versa?? Find a real man not one that wants a coochie.
You need to get tested because he’s been cheating. Sounds like he’s not being honest of where his interests lie. I’d ask him calmly. I understand being scared to be his true self but the cheating is unacceptable.
He’s cheating on you and if he’s comfortable with doing that to you even while pregnant he’s not going to change. I’m sorry you’re going through this and having to deal with a liar who betrayed you. I hope he’s able to coparent with you for the sake of the child but you absolutely should leave him.
There are people who cross dress or are trans and in healthy relationships but that should always be something you know about someone, not something to find out that they are hiding. I was dating someone while I was questioning my gender identity but it wasn’t something i needed to sleep with anyone to figure out. It was all an internal mental battle and not even a sexual one at that. So he took it to a new level and disrespected you which is not okay whatsoever because you don’t deserve that treatment.
He needs to find himself and his own identity and it sounds like unfortunately he is using you as a coverup for his identity crisis 🙁 so sorry love.