Hey everyone I was wondering if I could get some advice. I 25 male had to say goodbye to the hair on my head unfortunately and start being bald. My hair is just too thin so it looks better balled then grown out. That being said I also have a lot of excess body hair that I’m pretty insecure about. Because of this though I feel very unattractive and am to scared to try to date. So my question is what can I do to make myself more attractive. How do I make the look I got work?
I (25M) need some advice on how to be more attractive.
r/Advice
Comments
Bro, go bald. Best damn thing I ever did. I was 23 at the time. You will get used to it.
I would trim with an electric razor my body hair and work on my physique. Bald guys can be hot, but it’s all about confidence and accepting that some women, particularly younger in their late teens and early 20s, will not be interested. That’s fine, though, because you don’t want to deal with their immature and shallow bullshit anyway haha.
I feel bald ROCKS. Much better than keepin a patch here and there 🙂 I feel anyone that stands up straight, head up, smile with or without teeth, chest forward are simple things we can all do that are very undervalued for attraction. Try a fun new concept that ya like to add to your new look ( maybe fun pop socks, or unique belts, shoes) that makes you feel good and appreciate the many other good parts about ourselves/bodies we all have many.
One thing i will say is confidence is key. As cliché as that totally sounds- women (or men I’m not here to judge) LOVE confidence. I know you’ve seen someone with an unattractive partner before. 9/10 times it is cause they are funny and confident. Get comfortable in your own skin man cause i guarantee you don’t look as bad as you’re telling yourself.
Aside from that- if you’re insecure about your body hair, start shaving it or trimming! And the obvious lifting weights and eating healthy, showering, etc. Everyone looks good in their own way. No exceptions
From one of woman’s opinion: balding isn’t unattractive, looking old that young is.
If you have a mustache and beard don’t let it go grey. Have a good sense of style and carry yourself with confidence. Or just have a lot of money 😺
Minoxidil, finasteride, get your hair back do not go bald at 25 idc what anyone says here that’s gonna axe your dating life bro.
Rock some facial hair if you can, get some clippers with different guard lengths so you can trim the body hair. Find some nice fitting clothing and like others have mentioned, work on your confidence! I think it gets easier with age but it’s something to be mindful of. Oh and also make sure you take good care of your teeth and smile!
Edited to add, also moisturize. Get a nice face lotion and body lotion.
I started balding at 18, and had hair on my back by 16. It took me a long time to believe this, but there are women who are into it. I think about it like this, realistically, I am attracted to maybe 1-2% of the people I meet, by my logic, that means that 98-99% of people will not be attracted to me. I dont think that changes no matter how you look, too tall, too short, too fat, too thin, wrong religion, wrong politics, brown hair, curly hair, red hair, balding, whatever it is, you are going to fall into a few categories that will exclude you from some peoples dating pool. Yes we all know the super hot person that gets a lot of attention, but most of us are not that person. I dont have any advice on how to change your look, but comfort and confidence is always more attractive
You don’t have to “fix” yourself to be attractive. Just learn to highlight what makes you feel good. That confidence? That’s magnetic.
Brother, I’m gonna tell you right now. Confidence is where it’s at. Thats what people find attractive. You know like they want you to have confidence, come across as a strong willed and charismatic character with a dope sense of humor. That’s what people are attracted to you know. Like you can be bald with a fucking really hairy body all day long and still pull chicks 🙂 or dudes whatever floats your boat lol work on building yourself up my guy, find the things about you that you like and build on them. Trust me it will be noticeable! Just remember that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, nobody likes an asshole😂
From a female, keep the hair on your head bald, shave the hair on your chest, if you have hair on your back, shave it, or get someone to shave it every two weeks. Trim the hair under your arms trim only and trim the hair on your crotch.
Look in the mirror and say to yourself… I got this…