My fiancée and I have been together for 3 years and engaged for around 5 months. I’m currently serving in the military and we just recently reunited after me being gone for 2 months. We were having intercourse the night I came back and I suddenly felt emotional and the tears just started flowing. She asked me what was wrong but all I could do was just tell her how much I loved her. We continued to have sex but I still don’t know why that happened at such an odd moment, especially because I’m not much of a crier. Truth is I do love my fiancé more than anything. She’s truly saved me in ways I can’t explain. She hasn’t brought it up… though I don’t know why she would. I just can’t shake off the embarrassment. I don’t at all think she was turned off by it because we’ve had sex since then. I just still cannot figure out why that happened.
TL;DR – Cried during sex with my fiance and I don’t know why.
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Why were you embarrassed? That was such a sweet moment, if i was her id probably start crying too 🫠
if this happened to me i would feel so lucky. you showed vulnerability. so happy for you guys
Dude, you are in love with someone amazing, and you were overjoyed in the moment, totally normal. You had probably imagined seeing her again often. Hope you guys have 100 wonderful years together.
And also, don’t be embarrassed for being happy. Enjoy it
Being intimate with someone is a vulnerable moment and when you’re deeply in love you also often feel very connected to them, not just physically but mentally and emotionally. You missed her, were feeling vulnerable, and it made you a little emotional. It happens. I don’t think you should overthink it, and you have nothing too be embarrassed about. She loves you too right? Then I’d wager she understands, maybe better then you think.
It sounds to me you experienced bona fide tears of joy. Nothing to be ashamed of. Let her know.