My life is aimless. I dropped out of school and now i am tired of everything in life. I am of asia origin and seriously the place where i am. I need a job but everywhere on the street are people who have attended university of the least. These days i am cooping at home and waiting to die.
I am 19F, have depression and feel suicidal
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Hey, please don’t do that. I know it can be hard because I am in a similar situation but don’t give up on yourself.
Hello it gets better ik it is probably a hard time rn but u can get through it.
Hello bro
Go to therapy. start from scratch. Rebuild yourself bit by bit. Life is meaningless for everyone.. but whatever it is Just enjoy
Hello, you need to face reality and do a low pay job, enroll in school and climb the lader, can t let yourself root at 19. Also, take action; cause you will die a 1000 deaths in the space of your mind, if you keep living in there
Because few months I’m in like your situation but now I’m again start study so bro never give up
Hey I know it feels dark right now but this isnt the end of your story. you’re not a failure youre just in a hard chapter. u still matter even if you can’t see it yet. please reach out to someone. pure not alone and you deserve help and healing
You’re at a crossroads in life. So many people go through this same thing. You reached out online and that’s a start. You want more for yourself and you want to get better.
None of us are guaranteed tomorrow. I too battle depression and anxiety but I have to remind myself quite often of how I want my life to go. Your brain is tricking you into thinking things are so bad but they really are not. Your life is full of youth and opportunity. You hold the power within you to beat this thing and you’ll come out stronger than ever. This feeling you are having is not permanent. One day soon you will look back on this and be so proud of where you got in life. Dont waste another day!
then further study
Maybe switch up your routine. Start taking pictures around town, read some books, go talk to people, anything. If you feel aimless, it’s helped me before to just learn about a ton of new things and then try as many as I can. You never know what you’ll end up really emjoying
I was 19 once and felt that…. I’m 55 now and living my best life. I promise you it gets better💕 if you want you can message me and we can talk. It’s work and digging that can help you. You are NOT alone and you matter to all of us💚💕 I’m a 55 yr old mom and ready to listen and hear you
hello friend. i completely understand how you feel. i felt the same way you did once. but i wanted to show you that i am living proof that it gets better. i attempted (twice) and felt as if nothing was going to get better, and i’d just be better off dead. but thankfully both attempts were unsuccessful. i went to therapy and got the help that i needed, and pushed forward despite not wanting to. and despite my belief that nothing was going to get better, it actually did get better. and i am thankful for being here today, because i went back to school and found the love of my life. i’m not trying to guilt trip you for feeling this way, and i am certainly not trying to compare my situation to yours. i just really want to convey that it really does get better. i believe in you! find yourself a good therapist and explain to them how you’ve been feeling. that’s a start. just take it one day at a time, friend. and i’m always open to talking. you can always message me if you need someone to vent to! you are not alone, love.❤️
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