I am a 38 years old male from India. 8 years ago I used to Served in the Indian Army as an officer. My whole family, My great grandfather , Grandfather, Father and me; the complete 4 generation of my family served in the Indian Army as an officer, my great grandfather served in the British Indian Army, my grandfather served in the army in 1971-1972 war , my father in 1999 kargil war and me as an officer i served in special forces in CT operations in J&K.
8 years ago I found out my wife of 10 years cheated on the with multiple times. And her son was not biologically mine.
See my family is a rich family. Even as a rich person in our area we never forget to serve in the Army. Servering in the Army is our family tradition. It’s in our bloodline; nation is always first. So as soon as I found out my wife cheated on me. I filed for divorce.
And trust me the legal system is completely doomed here. No rights for men. Fucking clown….. To my shocked and suprised what the judged told me …. , it still gives me so much anger, I can’t be able to express it in words.
The judged told me that even if the wife cheated and even if the kid is biologically not mine they are still my responsibility. So I have to pay child support, spouseal support and lumpsum alimony which is approximately 2 millon in INR ( 20,00,000/- ) in USD it is about 23k$ . For me that ammount of money is nothing. But I still refused to pay.
Why the wrong people get all the justice and the innocent one to suffer.
Instead of giving her that ammount, I left the army and my country volunterally. So now she has no money, no support to find me. So even if she found out she can’t be able to do much.
Yah people will call me psycho, unhinged, deadbeat that’s all up to you. I don’t care. I don’t have any regrets for leaving her. Yes time to time her family members makes some threats to me. But IDGF.
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Doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong to me.
This doesn’t happen. At all
Talk about rage-bait
She’s not your problem 🤷‍♂️
Fake af.
You didnt do anything wrong
India literally has the worst rights for women
Wow people literally have to take care of a family that isn’t theirs?
How is your relationship with your non-biological son? Do you guys discuss his mother’s infidelity?
So did you leave the country 8 years ago when you divorced her?
Don’t feel bad, you are not in the wrong. Well done you for walking away.
In my opinion, you are right not to take care of a cheating ex-wife and her child with another man. I wish you all the best—life goes on, be happy. As for your ex-in-laws, they should take care of the child they raised.
If there is nothing falling back on u besides hard feelings then I say congrats on freedom man
23k usd not 234k usd bruh
I think you’re in the right cheaters plus not your kid if either of those applied different story but good on you for leaving
Ugh, these fake redpill stories get worse everytime.
This didn’t happen. At all. Not even a little.
There are a lot of taking points that redpill types harp on. One is that the courts are oh so unfair to men (in a country with a bad track record of treating women poorly no less). Fake stories will choose one of these talking points and construct a narrative around them to try and show how unfair the world is to men.
Ticks all the boxes:
Court so unfair to men âś…
Wife cheating âś…
Child isn’t mine âś…
Everyone expects me to care for wife who cheated âś…
Like, this is straight out of the man-o-sphere playbook.
You dropped this đź‘‘
This is so fake.
Not unhinged at all. Thats karma for her homie. Live your life.
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Wake up babe, new incel fantasy lore just dropped
Tbh I would do the same. Cheaters don’t deserve shit.
You stated no rights for men. You are aware what a horrific country India is for women right?
And you are giving us only one side of the story.
I get wanting to remove your ex-wife from your life… but how long did you bond with her son before you found out? how long did you and the boy both know eachother as father and son? I don’t think you realize how much this kid’s life depended on you providing materially and emotionally for the kid. clearly, their biological father isn’t contributing a damn thing which leaves a significant gap. making sure that kid is cared for with minimal disruption during a VERY vulnerable time in their life is what the court cares about. it’s not a mens & womens rights issue. it’s a children’s rights issue
Fuck anyone there that says you are the problem. You did the right thing.
Idk if this story is fake or not, but it’s true that men have to pay alimony to his wife even if she has stable job and it’s also true that he has to pay child support to a kid which is not made from his own sperm.
Just because y’all only see news about women getting raped here, doesn’t mean men are free from women’s harm here. In fact, there is no law or protection for men getting sexually assaulted here.
You served your country
She was servicing your countryman
Fuck her and that kid is innocent in all this…..but that kid has to blame the mother for his/her sufferingÂ
Do your thing man, you’ve stood up for yourself more than most people would and refuse to back down. Go enjoy your new wife
How do you know she cheated and was not raped?
No way this wouldn’t end in an honor murder if this were real.Â
Bc darr lagta abh shadi k naam se
Honey wake up! New redpill rage bait story from India just dropped off!
Love seeing the reactions of people that cant fathom that men also have it bad in India. If women have it bad doesnt immediately mean men have it good.
Imagine this story but switch the genders, the comments would be totally different
Why would the courts force you to support a child that isn’t yours and was the result of your spouses infidelity?! That is insane. Go live your life and let them figure out their own finances. You aren’t an ATM.
motherfuckers on here be like "India is a rape country no way this happen" yeah they raped the law to a bunch of fuck up nonesense
this isnt even a fight for you misogynist or misandrist, its how fucked up India is as a country
I would never ever fucking pay child support for a child that isn’t mine . That judge should be hungÂ
Lmao. Self exile instead of providing for the kid. Deadbeat.
> No rights for men
You’re joking, right?
I don’t know if this story is real. I think this is one of those stories to get incels all whipped up so they can complain about how hard men have it in society
Incel fanfiction, and poorly written fanfiction at that.
I’m with you until you started spouting incel nonsense about the Indian legal system. Would you trade your place to be a woman in India? Somehow I doubt it.
Your ex can be a awful person and cheater without you lying about your country’s treatment of women.
Fuck that judge, you did right. It probably would’ve hurt more to see her happy and leisurely spending that small fortune she’d get every month. I’d have a very hard time letting that go.
One of my worst nightmares would be being a woman in India. Even if this is true I had no sympathy for you as soon as I read that.
You did not do anything wrong, the system has failed you and people suffering like you out there. I don’t know when the Indian system will change.
Whrere were you posted? Which regiment? I have spoken to a fair number of officers in the city where I live in, none of them speak like you. They have impeccable grammar and spelling skills. I do not trust your story
Please do the needful!
I think she was fucking the judge.
You are paying because you have to sustain their livihoods as they are your family, and in 10 years your wife did not earn her own income to sustain herself and your son (on paper). Just pay and reconsider your own choices.
No rights for men……in India? You think we believe this crap?
false story I bet
Hell yeah man.
It’s sad that a man will dump a child without a second thought when he finds out it’s not from his goonsack. Yes she cheated, but the child you raised, for potentially years is innocent. And they just lost their father. They’re going to spend the rest of their life with issues and feeling like they weren’t good enough.
I’m not saying it’s his responsibility. It’s just crazy to me that you can drop a child that you’ve bonded with and loved so easily.
India…… no rights for men…. do people really believe this redpill fantasy?
Nah, that’s valid bro. Not your bit, not your problem.