I am a practicing Hijabi Femdom. AMA.

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Hello everyone. I am an Arab-American Muslim woman, I wear hijab, I am a Bi, and I also identify as a lifestyle Femdom. Please don’t confuse lifestyle with pro, because I don’t do it for money or have clients. This has been a very personal and empowering journey for me, and I know it often sparks curiosity.

I balance my faith, values, and this side of my identity with care and intention. I currently have a submissive partner (fellow Muslim) whom I love and adore.

I’m happy to answer respectful questions about my experiences, perspectives, daily dynamics, how I approach relationships, or anything you are genuinely curious about.

Please be kind and keep it respectful. I will skip anything that is inappropriate or disrespectful. Ask away.

Comments

  1. Traditional_You_4969 Avatar

    What kinks do you practice with your partner?

  2. Michelle_xoxo Avatar

    How did you meet your partner? And were they into Femdom before they met you?

  3. LarrrgeMarrrgeSentYa Avatar

    Do you wear hijab during scenes? Why/why not?

  4. mbkk_alain Avatar

    Is your partner your husband ? Have you had other partners ? When did it start ?

  5. Seagames1225 Avatar

    How did this begin with your partner and how do you reconcile this with your faith?

  6. cms_sucks Avatar

    Is it not haram?

  7. Jack_of_Kent Avatar

    How do you balance it with the Muslim faith without being a heretic of some kind?

  8. gusta_cl Avatar

    i’m a latinamerican person so i don’t know much of islam.

    but if you’re already into a femdom lifestyle and bisexual, why even wear the hijab? or at least for religious meetings i can get it. but on your everyday life? can you not be muslim like “only at heart” ? not living the lifestyle and practices of the dresscode, etc.

    or is something like you don’t want to disclose to friends and general public?

    sorry if my question sounds too stupid.

  9. Hour-Awareness-9198 Avatar

    I’ve seen that you are not married to the man you are seeing. How is this not haram? Is this not zina?

  10. sanfrancisco1998 Avatar

    You know this is the first time I’ve heard of an identity of this sort. As someone who balances modesty in her own way as a Muslim, how do you feel about diet restrictions in your faith such as alcohol, pork keeping halal? How do you dress in private vs public vs at work
    Hope my question is ok

  11. sanfrancisco1998 Avatar

    You mentioned you don’t have parents, how do you think that affected your faith? Did you never have parents or did you at one point have parents and they were taken away?