I need advice on what I should do. I broke up with my boyfriend because he wants a baby and I’m not 100% sure I ever will. I’ve never even considered it until I met him. There’s been times where I think it’ll be nice. But most of it I’m like yeah nah.
He’s always been aware of this. Since the start of our relationship. Last night he couldn’t promise he wouldn’t leave me if I decide I don’t want to have a child.
The issue is. I love this man more than anything. Untill him I’ve never had a healthy relationship and this man worships the ground I walk on. We are in the process of buying our first home.
But I ended it today. I don’t want to waste however much time in fear that I will never want a child and he will leave me. It’s also not fair for him to not have the life he wants. And while I’m gutted and heart broken. I can see where he’s coming from. I also don’t want him to end up resenting me if chooses to carry on being with me and not have the family he dreams of.
I don’t know how to come back from this. And I just want advice on how to move on with my life.