I “came” from kissing my boyfriend and I feel so embarrassed

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🌸will be updating when I talk to her and him 🌸

I (18F) recently got my first boyfriend(22M) , and we were hanging out at his place the other day. We started kissing but for some reason my mouth started to feel super tingly and weird not in a bad way, just… intense.

Then out of nowhere, my whole body felt like it lit up and I had what I can only describe as a full body orgasm. Just from kissing. Literally from my mouth. I got so overwhelmed and embarrassed that I left.

Later, I told my friend about it because I was kind of freaking out, and she basically told me I’m a freak and that it’s not normal. Now I feel even more embarrassed and kind of ashamed? I don’t know why that happened, like why my mouth…and I don’t know if anyone else has experienced anything like it, but I just needed to get this off my chest.

Comments

  1. Turnip_Time_2039 Avatar

    Girl, do you have any idea how many women have difficulty orgasming? And you did it from kissing? Good for you. And there’s no reason to be embarrassed that your boyfriend made you come. At a certain point in a relationship, that’s expected of him.

    This should be a brag, not an embarrassment.

  2. MotherPresence4638 Avatar

    If anything this is a brag on how in love you are with him… or how good of a kisser he is lol

  3. ThrownCupid Avatar

    I don’t have that much expertise in that department since I’m male but if I were your boyfriend I would feel extremely happy and honored that you like me so much that you came from a kiss
    But I also want to point out that your “friend” doesn’t really sound like one
    And have you talked to your boyfriend about see how he feels?
    Anyways best of luck and you’re no freak just think about how easy it is to make men cum it’s only fair that women also get to have it easy

  4. Particular-Tree4891 Avatar

    girl dont feel ashamed good for you

  5. OpheliaVane_ Avatar

    Oh my God, that sometimes happens to me too when I have particularly stimulating thoughts—I get these little sudden orgasms. You’re the first person I’ve come across who’s experienced something similar to me! It’s incredible! I keep wondering if there’s a name for this and if other women have had similar experiences.

  6. sugarycyanide Avatar

    Lol you made this account today and just decided to post this? Girl bffr

  7. LostPomoWoman Avatar

    Damn girl! I (49F) have only experienced one man whose kiss I felt literally everywhere. Sadly, he’s my recent ex (49M). While I didn’t orgasm my entire body felt electric. Enjoy and relish every moment of this.

  8. Moonchild0u0_ Avatar

    First of all, feeling orgasmic just from kissing is a very natural feeling.some people are just more sensitive than others in their erogenous zones and that’s perfectly fine.please talk to your BF and let him know that you’re ok bc there’s a high chance the dude might be blaming himself bc he might get the impression he might did smth wrong. Also secondly your friend is shaming you and it’s not ok, everyone is built different and our nervous system is wired differently to different degrees of sensitivity.jsut bc you’re on the higher end and came much more easily due to it doesn’t mean you are weak or a “loser.”
    I don’t get why do ppl even shame this bc I see this as a good thing? You can have more sexual pleasures than most ppl do lol.

  9. Highlander0001 Avatar

    Nothing to be ashamed of. That’s legendary.

  10. hismoon27 Avatar

    I love this for you. Don’t be embarrassed!! Your boyfriend would probably feel like a King if he knew that he had such an effect on you. This is a W lol

  11. debbie120 Avatar

    Its called a spontaneous orgasm

  12. Pumpkin_Pie Avatar

    If you were my girlfriend I’d try to kiss you all the time

  13. Ok_Cartoonist_6929 Avatar

    I mean while it may be unusual I don’t see anything bad. In fact I would tell your boyfriend it will probably boost his ego. Just say you such a great kiss you mad me come. I don’t see him being mad about it

  14. NerdyGreenWitch Avatar

    That’s awesome, I bet your boyfriend loved it. You’re not a freak or abnormal at all. I was able to do that just from nipple stimulation. My husband loved it. It’s the only thing I miss about having breasts (I lost them to breast cancer). Your friend is either ignorant or jealous.

  15. mountainhindu Avatar

    I’m gonna be honest here. I’ve cum from making out. For real. Had to go change my pants because of a wet spot

  16. nedmccrady1588 Avatar

    Your bf probably feels like Thor right about now

  17. SnowStar_24 Avatar

    First of all, it might not have been a full-blown orgasm you might have just been extremely turned on which is completely normal, second of all, ur really young so this is all still pretty new for you so you are definitely not a freak by any means, you’re just scratching the surface of this new world so of course you’re going to be very turned on. Also, I promise you your significant other probably thinks it was super sexy. Most normal guys don’t get turned off when girls are turned on like that. It’s quite the opposite, actually. Don’t overthink it. Just go with the flow. There’s really not much you can do that guys don’t think is sexy. And the most sexy thing you can do is have confidence.

  18. TreMuzik Avatar

    It’s not uncommon, it happens to people. No lie, ever heard the song “Jizzed in my pants” by Lonely Island? He orgasms from making out with a chick at the club. Yes, women can experience that too lol.

    You don’t have to feel weird about it. It’s nothing strange and your BF is probably delighted to hear this lol.

  19. dracona94 Avatar

    Sounds like you need different friends. You’re not a freak.

  20. beercollective Avatar

    You’re not a freak, you are blessed. Whether it be the connection with your boyfriend or your individual sensitivity, it’s something to celebrate and certainly nothing to be ashamed of. It happened to my wife while we were still dating, and it remains a treasured memory for us! I would say it’s rare for a female, and not so much for a male, but your “friend” sounds like not much of a friend.

  21. addicted-2-cameltoe Avatar

    Means it was erotic…ive kissed women and they have orgasmed….damn it felt great hearing it!

  22. Easy_Turn1988 Avatar

    Good for you

    For all I know, it will be a huge turn on for him

  23. dolmadakia Avatar

    So many older people wish they could get back that feeling. Just enjoy it.

  24. monkeyhello36 Avatar

    This happened to me with my boyfriend 3 years ago, and he still talks about how hot it was. I imagine most guys feel the same way

  25. CyrilFiggis00 Avatar

    I’ve been with my wife for almost 20 years.. We say “I love you” by giving each other the middle finger.

  26. SchloinkDoink Avatar

    Your friend sucks wtf

  27. frankenfurter2020 Avatar

    Tell your bf he will be so happy 😆

  28. therealsix Avatar

    Fuck that, that’s amazing. Absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about and as a guy, I’d LOVE to know that happened because it would make me want to kiss you even more than normal. That’s fucking awesome.

  29. Somerandom1922 Avatar

    Ok, firstly, as others have said, that’s not a bad thing, that’s a great thing.

    But also, your friend doesn’t know shit. Entirely different things work for different people. In my relationships, I’ve had a girlfriend who I could reliably edge by playing with her nipples and ears, and some who had trouble orgasming at all. The full spectrum of what’s normal is massive, it’s likely that your friend experiences something very different and is assuming that the way it is for them is how it is for everybody.

  30. thunderthighlasagna Avatar

    Girl fuck that friend, good for you!

  31. copperhead39 Avatar

    If I meet a girl that do that with me, that would put a smile to ly face until my death.

    There is absolutely no shame, you reacted strongly to that intimate moment and that’s fine.

    Your friend is JEALOUS

  32. Noctiluca04 Avatar

    This used to happen to me when I was young. Alas, it faded with age. Enjoy it!

  33. AdorableAd5513 Avatar

    your friend is an asshole. it’s fine. you’re one of the lucky ones!

  34. Almym Avatar

    That’s the most normal thing in the history of normal things. There’s even a song about it.

    leave the guy hanging though, tell him what happened so he knows why you left.

  35. Responsible_Exit_815 Avatar

    Girl don’t feel embarrassed! That means you’re probably in love:)

  36. peeledpotatoesss Avatar

    Okay, first of all your friend is either jealous or extremely immature. Second thing, orgasming is never a bad thing lol you should never be sad/ashamed if you achieve it easily, some women go a whole life without having one so count yourself very lucky. About it being common or not, people have very different ways of feeling pleasure and that is no big deal. For example, some women cum from touching their breasts, some don’t feel anything touching them, some feel good but not enough to cum. Now about your boyfriend, I’ve had many boyfriends in this life and I can confidently say he will most likely feel extremely badass if you tell him this, so no reason to feel embarrassed. But put that all aside you should always be able to feel comfortable sharing these things and, most importantly, enjoying these things with your partner in your moments of intimacy anyway. Just let yourself explore and enjoy things and don’t worry about what it should feel like, you’ll have way more fun and he probably will too.

  37. personman Avatar

    Your friend’s adviceometer is severely miscalibrated. Also she is pretty likely not actually your friend, or maybe just like has some kind of weird prudery going on? Anyway whatever’s going on there, do NOT take it seriously, AT ALL. And tell her to read the comments here to learn how full of shit she is.

  38. InnocuousBird Avatar

    Tell us his kissing secrets!

  39. Sea-Response950 Avatar

    Don’t be ashamed, at all. My wife and I say that orgasming quickly happens because we love each other so much, I can make her orgasm very easily if we’re snuggled up and cuddling without going near her area.

    All this means is you really care about your boyfriend and you’re extremely into him, that’s absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about.

  40. KISSALIVE1975 Avatar

    I Am Failing To See Why This Is Embarrassing…

  41. xenithangell Avatar

    Your friend is an idiot. I have learned that there is no such thing as normal, or in other words everyone is a freak and therefore being a freak is normal. This should have been an experience to relish, remember and recall not something to ashamed of.

  42. Ozok123 Avatar

    It was me Barry

  43. HouseOfJanus Avatar

    Keep the boy, dump the “friend”

  44. dac3062 Avatar

    Well don’t ever tell your boyfriend his head may never leave the clouds again.

  45. MarcosJam Avatar

    Sounds like your friend might be jealous. Keep an eye open.

  46. gonewild9676 Avatar

    It’s ok to be a freak and “not normal”. Normal is boring. Life is a lot more fun when you can embrace your inner freak.

  47. lord-celeborn Avatar

    girl i’m jealous don’t be embarrassed

  48. DealCykaHUN Avatar

    i cant even think of a thing that would boost a man’s ego more than this happening.

    he should put a ring on it fast

  49. Few_Sweet3973 Avatar

    Definitely nothing wrong with what happened to you! She probably struggle to orgasm and is jealous

  50. Biennial2 Avatar

    You are definitely not a freak. You are very lucky, as will be any man who is with you.

  51. maddawgg11 Avatar

    you have no idea how many of us wish we had this problem 😂 don’t be embarrassed!! female orgasms are beautiful things

  52. chudy-01 Avatar

    Girl good for you.
    Must have been a good feeling, tell your boyfriend and i’m sure he’ll be proud as a peacock, i know i would be

  53. One_Tomato5855 Avatar

    Don’t be, that’s amazing girl!

  54. div_nn Avatar

    You’re just lucky girl

  55. macsun247 Avatar

    Sheeeiittt….guys would pay for that. Your friend is a moron… no disrespect

  56. Ruxarrahman Avatar

    Nothin wrong with that! One thing you’ll probably notice is that it’ll change with time ☝🏽