I (M- 30) since I have been Sexually active (19 years old. ). Have very rarely ever finished. when I’ve been with any of my girlfriends or even some hookups in the past. To put this into perspective, I was not circumcised as a baby, but I was born with a condition where the foreskin would not retract at all. The skin was too tight. Therefore I did not grow up masterbating or anything like that because it would be painful. When I was 16 I decided to go ahead and get the surgery, but since it was so far long I never thought about pleasing myself ever. Nothing would happen and I never knew what the sensation even felt like. Fast forward to 19, I was in the military hooking up with this chick for the first time ever: lost my virginity. Never finished. Several women over the course of over a decade, and I only came with a small amount of women. I thought i was weird and women don’t appreciate me not finishing because they get offended, so I assure them it’s me not them. It may be all in my head, because I can finish the job myself. I don’t even do it often because I like to save it for my current girlfriend that I’m in a serious relationship with. We are wanting to have kids so now I’m in sort of a conundrum. We have sex for hours and nothing will happen. I just will eventually get too tired and then it’s over. I have thought about doing an artificial insemination with my own DNA. But I feel like that’s a little unorthodox. Usually this is made for lesbian couples or perhaps a man who has a low sperm count. For me it’s not even the sperm count because it’s very high but only by myself does anyone have any advice on what I should do? Has anyone else ever had this issue? I’m starting to get desperate, which is why I’m on Reddit. It can’t be a physical thing because I can do it myself. But maybe it’s sensitivity or something I don’t know. 🤷♂️
I can not climax with anyone only by myself.
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Tell them it’s a medical thing, everything works but the gun isn’t loaded, don’t worry so much and just enjoy it as much as you can, and maybe go to a urologist about it
If she wants to get pregnant then all you need to do is masturbate, ejaculate and then use a turkey baster.
Or masturbate then when you are right at the verge of ejaculating insert your penis into her and come in her.
There may be an actual procedure with using a turkey baster to preserve sperm (its very sensitive to environmental conditions) so you might want to look it up.
Sure lesbians use this technique because they don’t want a penis in their vagina and it makes it more impersonal.
But you don’t have that issue.
If you want to have a child then you will need to get over your preconceived biases.
Mutual masturbation and when you are close to cumming switch to PIV sex so that you finish inside her
Try therapy? Not to be disparaging, but you sound like you’re in your own head. There’s nothing wrong with you, those women who got offended had low self esteem shining out their behinds. Sex is about more than getting off – why don’t most people know this? (I know you know it!)
Maybe TMI, but my son had that same thing with the foreskin. The pediatrician actually told us to give a gentle stretching during diaper changes to loosen it up … I don’t know if that was a successful endeavor and I’m sure not gonna ask him 🤣 but, I’m sorry you ended up having to get surgery. Probably lost a lot of sensitivity that way – which could be part of the issue.
Last – all sorts of people do artificial insemination. No big deal! It is expensive, though.
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