i know it sounds funny but its a real issue that i always had, i have never reached orgasm, even though im definitely not asexual, and i have masturbated, i have never reached that point. i hate it, because there is definitely something wrong here, because i literally have never seen anyone talk about it at all, aside from a video i discovered a few minutes ago. i heard that the causes may be stress or in general something psychological but i dont know what to actually do. im worried that if i ever get a partner i might not actually orgasm even with the “real” experience, which would be awkward as hell. (17m btw, please dont hit me with the “such young people shouldnt be talking about this stuff)
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Hey, op, I’m amab. And I almost could never orgasm with partners until my 20s. And even when I could, it was like, “Oh. That’s what it’s like. Meh. ” Some people are just built differently. There’s nothing wrong with you in that regard.
If you do masterbate, you might be giving yourself a deathgrip and slightly hurting the nerve endings on your member.
Ultimately, if you’re worried, try and see if you can get your hormones checked. Your body is still going through puberty still, and bodies do weird stuff in that time.