So i and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now but a year ago i started going on birth control because we didnt like using condoms so it all was normal until it started to hurt and sting when we started to have sex and it became more painful each time he put it in and eventually it started to hurt so much that he cant put it in and ive tried everything infection cream ive gone to the gynecologist but they can’t help either so he has been so supportive for when it started but everytime we try it hurts like hell and i we do oral and other stuff but i feel like and i know that he is not being satisfied even tho he says he is what can i do for this issue to go away ive had it for a year now and its really getting on my mental health 🙁
I cant satisfy my boyfriend and it hurts
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I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. It might take time to figure out what’s going on, so don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion or explore options like pelvic floor therapy. Keep talking with your boyfriend too it’s important for both of you to feel supported.
Make an appointment with a different gynecologist. This one is not listening to you.
Try other forms of birth control. There are many options out there.
It sounds like the birth control is causing the pain. Try a different option with your doctor and keep talking to your boyfriend. Your health comes first.
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. It’s great that your boyfriend is supportive, but your well-being is key. If the pain persists, maybe get a second opinion or try different treatments. Don’t forget to take care of your mental health too, you’re not alone in this.
So why not stop using the birth control or see of there is another option that doesn’t have this side effect. If nothing is available go back to condoms. If the birth control is messing up your body this bad then stop taking it.
i’m sorry but if my partner was in pain, i would just wear a condom. you’re going through hell for him. why can’t he open a package and put on a condom for you. it doesn’t seem like much. Also, I second getting a new gynecologist
This pain is not something you should just accept. Your body deserves comfort and pleasure! It’s time to revisit your doctor about alternatives, maybe try a pelvic floor therapist, or change birth control methods because no relationship should be held back by unaddressed pain.
Does he spend enough time trying to please you before he initiates PIV?