I needed somewhere to admit this and have no ties to my main because it makes me absolutely sick.
Me(M22) and my bf(M20) have been dating for two years and of course had sex, he’s more ‘out there’ than me and likes trying new things and is also a person who likes pain.
Around a week we were having sex and he told me he wanted me to choke him, I did and he kept telling me to go harder, I was into it at the moment and I did squeeze really hard, but the next morning I noticed he had a bruise around his neck. He laughed it off and doesn’t see a big deal but I kind of do, one, I don’t want people to think I’m abusive and two what about his friends, family that’ll eventually see it? I’d hate to have to explain “yeah that’s just sex with me.” It’s not even faint it’s noticeable.
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Hunny.. your age and immaturity is showing.. your relationship is not the only one that enjoys pain and marks.. he’s prob wearing them proudly.. you however are not made for it.. and you need to think about it.. because he’s gonna want more and by more I mean will likely escalate passed choking.. maybe not.. but if you have this big of an issue.. let him go so he can find someone who he is sexually compatible with.. cause really ya both deserve what you need.. and it’s already quite apparent that you clash sexually to extremes.. and it’s not worth it.. trust me,. Just trust me,.
He’s fine with it so I see no problem, and if its embarrassment that is the issue then maybe you need to live a little. Talk with him about it tell him it makes you uncomfortable before anything.