I chopped off most of my hair a while back and my family hates it (i didn’t care what they thought in the end)

I don’t know what started it. Whenever I (19f) asked to go to the hair salon for a haircut, my mother ended up going with me and telling the hairstylist how I wanted it done since I wasn’t familiar with the names of every haircut. One time, I tried to give myself some bangs (I used to have them when I was little) and I messed it up :(. My mother immediately took me to the hair salon to have it fixed. I don’t remember what I found odd about the haircut I was given so I tried to “even it out.” It turned into a messy bob so I kept trying to fix it on my own. I managed to get the front view ok but I was uncomfortable with how it felt whenever I touched my head. Eventually, I took another look in the mirror and then decided to leave it be. Honestly, I’m ok with my current haircut and will probably wait a year or 2 to get it right again. My mother still makes fun of my haircut and said that I should’ve kept it longer like before. And to make sure I didn’t try something stupid as that again, she went and hid every scissor.