When I was 21 I was seeing this guy regularly. We weren’t official or anything but pretty much did everything a bf/gf would do together. Well, I stayed over with him one night & in the morning before I left we had sex. Well later that night, I went out with a group of friends and my ex was there because our friend group was mutual. I was very much still into this ex and really wanted to be in a relationship with him again. We ended up getting a hotel room together and having sex that night.
I had unprotected sex with 2 different guys within 24 hours and didn’t shower in between. I know to some this may not seem like a big deal but I’ve always felt wrong about it. It wasn’t planned out ahead of time & not something I thought would happen but it did. I never told either of them.
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everyone makes mistakes i dont think you should continue beating yourself up over it. you were young once youve learned from it let it go
If there was a character and her behavior was like you mentioned it’ll be labeled as a Wπ0Re , as somebody’s who’s never even kissed , how tf can you just go on doing that with strangers or people you can’t spend life with
Serious advise it’s been 10 years, and to morn that guilty have it once with me we’ll see if showering or non showering works, so u can post another story about updated experience
It’s been 10 years and it sounds like you don’t see either of them anymore so you shouldn’t feel wrong about it anymore, it’s the past and we all do stuff that we regret but that’s life
Sounds like fun to me. Not wise but exciting I’m sure. Unless you caught and passed on an STD there’s nothing to feel bad about.
I think you did nothing wrong
You don’t have to tell either of them or feel guilty for them. They both knowingly had unprotected sex with you as well. For all you know they also had unprotected sex earlier in the day. If you feel bad for yourself because you violated an internal moral code then that’s okay but sometimes you have to make those mistakes to know where you draw the line, so whether or not you decide to snowball again or not is your decision but don’t feel bad on behalf of them.
It happened, it’s long over with now. No need to beat yourself up about it still. Sounds like you had a fun day at least!
Did you end up with him?
You did nothing wrong.
Girl Please shower better! Otherwise I agree with everybody here.
I think sleeping with different guys in close succession is far more common than a lot of young women would admit.
Don’t sweat about it.
Why is that a mistake?