I don’t have any friends and it’s my fault.. I only had one person I considered a friend, and we haven’t spoken in 1 year. so there’s probably not much of a friendship there. I never spoke to him until it was too late, he never did too, and we’ve grown too distant at this point.
But I really want to rebuild that relationship, and make new friends, but it’s extremely difficult for me to talk to new people. It’s almost ridiculous. I overthink everything. “Is this too stupid? Is this too cringe-inducing?” “Will I look like an idiot if I say this?”
It’s hard for me to build new friendships, because of that. I really want to have friends. I want friends who we can talk to, send memes to, play video games with, hang out with in person, and so on.
There’s someone I find nice. He’s a good person and funny, but I don’t know how to be his friend. I’ve talked to him a few times, but obviously we’re not friends yet.
I don’t know if it’s the right word, but I’m bored of feeling lonely, like I don’t have anyone I can talk to for even 5-10 minutes, no matter the day. I think I feel lonely.
I’d like to know how I could approach him and other new people to possibly make friends.
(my age is 21)
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Just relax yourself before talking to anyone. no one will blame you for anything you say wrong. and fun fact “no one thinks about someone else that much.” so even if you seem stupid or looked a mess still people would not mind it. i hope you find good friends
Well when I don’t know what to day I usually talk about a show that I have watched… And go from there like maybe talk about popular Netflix shows, poeple usually love talking about their opinions about that….