As the title says I don’t have enough confidence to approach people. The problem is I’m 6,4 and look muscular so people expect me to approach them but I just don’t have confidence so I never make friends.
How to fix this?
I don’t have enough confidence to approach people
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I know it’s not easy but you just have to suck it up and practice by going up to people and starting a conversation. You will probably feel awkward at first but practice will help you figure out what works and what doesn’t.
What are your hobbies besides working out, I’m assuming you lift right?
Practice. Expect it to feel awkward and go poorly at first. But pay attention to the mistakes so you can figure out how to do better next time. Over time you’ll improve, plus you’ll get enough experience that it will begin to feel familiar and then even comfortable.
You lack confidence for a reason, because deep down you know it will make you look like a fool. if you absolutely knew it would be good then of course you would be confident. So it’s probably not a good idea to approach unpess you naturally feel confident to do so. Your instincts are there for a reason. Don’t force anything. Let things happen naturally. Don’t be fake. Don’t do things outside of your comfort zone. you have a comfort zone for a reason. Just relax and dont stress