Short and simple throwaway vent. I just dont like the men i attract.
Ever since i started putting more effort into self-improvement, therapy, exercising self-confidence work, etc. It feels like i only attract men who are the exact opposite of that.
They dont put any work into themselves, they have no hobbies. They put 0 effort into self-improvement and make excuses to why they don’t. Theyre all weirdly fixated on my appearance and nothing else. As they literally put 0 effort into themselves appearance or personality wise.
Not trying to say theyre losers or ugly, i just think its weird and kind of disappointing. I put so much effort into bettering myself as a person and its kinda sad attracting people who do not do the same for themselves. This doesnt like control my life or whatever, just bums me out.
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Find men in your hobbies. Men who aren’t into bettering themselves tend to be:
-watching sports with friends… Constantly.
Etc you get the idea. Dudes at pottery, art, etc aren’t likely to be the “look at this hot babe I scored!”
I was online with some group of dudes my friend knows and he literally screamed at his girlfriend for interrupting his “Bros night” …. Oooooof I hope she left him.
Gotta start looking in new places