A lot of online posts are about people being “bad friends” for being less available or no longer saying yes to going out anymore and no longer being “fun.” Or bashing on friends who aren’t around as much cause they moved, or got married, or just got older and have new priorities. But I think it’s pretty unfair because coming from the POV of the friend who started to say no to social events, it isn’t personal lol. In my case, I want to save money by cooking at home. I quit drinking and smoking weed. So I just started to socialize less. But so many posts would paint me as a bad friend for hanging out less and saying no more.
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Often the person being lebaled as the bad friend simply either stopped letting people take advantage of them, or outgrew the friends who stayed the same.