I feel like men see me as a trophy when they pursue me and it’s annoying ….

A few weeks ago I (22f) met a guy at the club and we danced. We exchanged numbers. He didn’t call me until a week later asking what I was doing and I was out with my family to celebrate my birthday. A week later he calls (today) and ask me what I’m doing. I said that I’m hanging out with a friend. He then tells me to come to his friends birthday party and I say I can’t. He asks what I’m doing now and u said I’m hanging out with a friend and I won’t ditch her to hangout with a guy……He then sends me the address and which was his house and tells me to pull up. You never took me out and planned a date. Instead you ask me to come to your friends birthday party at your house with a bunch of other men for the first date. Not saying every man is a predator but I’m definitely not going to your house when you’re a stranger with other men that are strangers. Lazy planning. Also why would I want to go to your friends party for a first date when I don’t know anyone. The music will be loud and we won’t get to know each other. Of course I blocked him after this bc no ..like why do some guys date like they’re already in a relationship with that person . I don’t want to be shown as a trophy for a first meetup. This isn’t the first time where a guy has tried to invite me to a “date” or “hangout” with their friends. Two months ago I went out a with (27m) for lunch. On the date he FaceTimes his mom and I basically had to say hi bc I didn’t want to be rude atp. He the asked me if I wanted to hangout at his friends barbershop. I stupidly agreed but after 30 minutes he asks me if I’m bored and I said yeah bc this isn’t really a date and I can’t get to know you with other people around, I ordered my uber, and left. Not trying to sound mean but no I don’t want to meet your close circle, uncle, mom, etc on a first date. Bc if you’re showing me off like that early on before getting to know men I’m gonna feel like a trophy.