I found out my brother is into incest (NSFW)

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So my kid brother (15) has had a um… porn problem since he was 9. He’s been to therapy for it but it didn’t work I guess. Anyways, I was using his laptop and found the search history. Apart from finding out he was bi (nothing wrong with that) I found out he seems to REALLY like incest. I’m talking multiple searches about it, lots of stepbrother gay porn (I’m a girl so atleast I know he doesn’t feel that way towards me I guess) along with him being a huge fan of that coffin of Andy and leyley game (I’ve seen him play roblox with his avatar as the main character)

I just feel weird now . It’s one thing if I had found out he was into feet or something, but incest??? Has anyone had a similar experience? I don’t know if I can look at him the same way now

Comments

  1. JigglesTheBiggles Avatar

    Incest is extremely popular these days. Its one of the most searched content in porn. The front page of pornhub is all step mother and step daughter stuff for example.

  2. flirtandfantasy Avatar

    Yes being incest is very popular these days

  3. Fun-Put8224 Avatar

    maybe it’ll help to think ab how it is probably (hopefully) just a phase since it is so popular these days

  4. McFleur-licker Avatar

    my brother is into incest too i think, i haven’t really confronted him about it but i think it’s pretty common (unfortunately) but i hope it doesn’t get normalized else we will have a lot of deformed children walking around…

  5. rolandthehyena Avatar

    Just a fetish it’s fine

  6. Pardon_Chato Avatar

    This comes from blended families. Half siblings who fancy each other. Very common nowadays.

  7. Autism-Sauce Avatar

    Honestly, when it’s just a porn genre I wouldn’t read too far into it. It’s probably one of the most popular genres at the moment.

    I’m sure most people have probably watched something they have no actual interest in irl – they just wanna bust a nut.

  8. nihtonijak Avatar
  9. BluDvls21 Avatar

    Seems like a male family friend/family member may have abused him (or still is)

  10. HwlngMdMurdoch Avatar

    First, , why were you looking in his search history? I get that “everyone does it”, but going in areas on someone else’s computer is invasion of privacy. I’m NOT saying the search history and what’s in it is fine, but still. Now, as for the whole incest thing. Keep in mind that a lot of the porn videos are performed by actors and not real relatives (step siblings, step parents, etc.and even the “real sister/brother”). All fantasy geared towards kinks. OP mentioned therapy for his porn addiction. I’d recommend another therapist, and something a little more intensive. He’s in need of understanding the difference between real and acting/fantasy. Parental controls on the computer/Internet should be enacted.

  11. NiaJustNia Avatar

    So incest is a taboo, which makes it an exciting novelty to explore through fictional stories (animated of through porn scripts between unrelated adult actors), which is why it’s so popular. It’s boundary pushing without crossing any actual real life boundaries.
    You don’t really need to be worried unless he’s doing anything that might suggest he would act on something like that, like watching videos of irl sexual abuse, which doesn’t seem to be the case from what you’ve said. It sounds like he’s just exploring things, and being into fictional incest is NOT the same as actually wanting to partake in irl incest. There are many topics people like to explore in fictional contexts but would find abhorrent in real life. People might look at gore or read gory content, but they have no interest in actually being elbow deep in an actual real person’s intestines or hurting anyone. Your brother is exploring fiction, so there’s nothing to really be concerned about.

    Pornography addiction is really difficult to combat in modern society. You have underwear and perfume adverts in mainstream media that are very sexually suggestive, and most advertisements aimed at adults including things like vehicles, clothing, holidays, literally anything, involve some degree of sexually suggestive themes, because sex sells. Many TV shows and movies have suggestive or even sometimes explicit sex scenes. Your brother was never really going to get away from porn unless you had a living situation where he never experienced any kind of advertising or media.

  12. flowers-for-ryan Avatar

    hormones are raging at that age. im gonna bet hes just curious.
    reminds me of when my male cousin was caught watching transgender porn when he was 17 lol. his brothers gave him shit and hes straight as can be and has 3 girls now.

  13. Apprehensive-Nose520 Avatar

    So I’m into it COME FOR ME but it’s honestly not as weird as the actual act of incest. For me it’s just about the presentation. Most porn is brutal and rough which isn’t for me. Most of those sibling things it always from a place of love or random or something more believable than hey pizza time time to get FUCKED

  14. Upbeat-Criticism-358 Avatar

    If he is 15 that means he has pretty much been brought up with that as the main genre of porn since it’s only been a few years since it became popular so I can’t blame him much