I’m a bisexual girl and my parents aren’t very open about that topic. My sister forcibly outed me. She’s spent her whole life belittling me over things related to my life in general, including my sexual orientation. She would brag about being heterosexual as if that made her superior to me. She’s called me every offensive name possible, and she’s done some of the worst things a person can do—such as leaking my information on adult websites, telling my parents I took a pregnancy test, stealing data from my laptop, and more invasions of my privacy.
The thing is, without even doing much digging, I found out she had a girlfriend, and that everything she claimed was a lie. I’m making this post mostly to vent. I know there’s nothing wrong with being a lesbian, but I can’t help but wonder how she would feel if I aired her private life to our parents. I swear I don’t have the heart to do it, and I never would. I could never just throw her under the bus like that. But she’s done it to me countless times, and it really hurts because she’s gotten me into so much trouble.
I don’t know how to cope with all of this anymore. If anyone has advice on how to deal with the pain, and constant invasions of my privacy, just wan’t to be free.
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Hmm, I have the same sister. She’s on low contact now and has never taken ANY responsibility for all the crap she has done and said about me. I have done so much for her and consistently hear rumours about me from her friends. I go low contact so I can visit with the family. Otherwise, it would be no contact.
Well, in my opinion. You could be justified in doing that.
But honestly, your parents should be to blame, not you. They created the enviroment for her to exploit, and well. If KFP2 is anything, the best revenge is letting go.
Still however, it is only fair she does feel what it’s like to be on the other end.
Man, that’s tough as hell. No one should have to put up with that kinda nonsense, esp from their own fam. She’s clearly got her own issues to sort out, but that doesn’t excuse her for treating you like crap. Maybe confront her privately first, let her know how much she’s hurt you? And do set boundaries, you’ve got a right to your privacy dude. Stay strong, you got this. Hope things get better for ya soon.✌️🌈
Your nicer then me that be the first thing I did
How old are you? Hopefully you won’t have to live in this situation for much longer and you can go live your life without your sister being so horrid.
Is your sister the feminine one or the butch one? Coz I’m sure your parents will figure it out themselves later on.
She’s picking on you to protect herself and maybe self hating. You don’t have to out her but the next time she makes any comments about you sexuality and say something like you know, you really hate hypocrites or it must be terrible to hate yourself so much you lash out at other people. Hopefully she’ll get the hint you know something and leave you alone