She’s narcissistic and I had enough of her bullying so I lashed out (I have CPTSD & BPD), she gathered the entire family to humiliate me. After an hour of constant yelling and arguments, she started counting all the things she’s done for me (I fed you, put a roof over your head, etc), claiming she never did me wrong.
I told her she did so many times, she denied it, I said “I have an incident in mind,” and told her about the way she reacted when I finally told her that her brother had been assaulting me for years. She blamed me for “going to his house,” started listing the diseases she has, until my sister walked in so she started hysterically screaming “I’M DONE WITH YOU BRINGING THIS UP EVERY TIME” “I’M DONE” and acted out a breakdown.
I was honestly just speechless so I left while everyone rushed to help her cause “she has hypertension.” My older sister came into my room to double down on the victim bling and said they’ll hold me accountable for anything that might potentially happen to our mother.
Funnily enough, she was playing with my baby niece 20 mins later as if nothing happened. And I’m casted out as the crazy bitch.
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I’m sorry you are going through this. Her flying monkeys are helping her. If it’s possible, l’d find somewhere else to live!