I just got catfished by this girl i was talking to for a couple of weeks and we finally went out for coffee. Turns out she looked nothing like her photos which she sent and they were from years ago. I still treated her like i would have anyway and the date went fine but i was very shaken up that i got catfished. I didnt connect with her emotionally either which was the last straw. Unfortunately she said i was the perfect guy for her.
Im not someone who judges others by looks but i did ask her for her instagram which she said she didnt have and the few photos she sent were all i had to guess on what she looked like. I ghosted her afterwards when i was sure that i had no attachment whatsoever but i didnt let her feel that i didnt find her attractive at all and that was why i was ghosting her. I feel guilty and disgusted by myself that i ghosted someone based on looks but i just wasnt feeling anything at all.
I need second opinions and what someone else would have done if they were in my shoes….
I got catfished
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Jus wanna ask how different does she look like from her photos?
In the future, video call before dates since someone not looking like their photos is a dealbreaker for you.