This is the third time I get ghosted again. I know it’s because of my looks, in this case I made sure to meet him quickly in case he wasn’t happy with the way that I look in person. I don’t think I’m a catfish, but at this point I’m starting to believe that I am. It hurts. Because I thought things were going so well. It has to be my looks. I know people love my personality, my ex said it was the most beautiful thing about me. I just want someone to think I’m beautiful. But I don’t think I’ll ever find that
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It be like that sometimes. It hurts bad especially bc your sitting here assuming it’s your looks. It’s not you it’s them. At the very least they could say hey I got xyz going on and am choosing not to pursue further but they are to immature to or insensitive.
Don’t give up. Your looks got the dates so it’s not that just try and focus on you and stay positive about yourself.
Don’t give up it sucks in the dating scene I know this from experience I’m 45 and have been dating since I was 15 and I was the” ugly duckling” . I promise you it’s not you it is them they are a holes and a bags that don’t want to look any deeper than the service. 5 10 years later they look me up on FB and hit on my looks haven’t changed. Please don’t go around thinking that is you I promised you is not it is a them thing not a you thing and you will be able to shove it in their face 5 10 15 years down the road I am 45 now and I still look like I’m in my early 30s. I wish you all the luck in the world I’m sending you internet hugs and love please don’t let this get you down
If you go into a date with the idea they won’t like you then they probably won’t.
Instead try working on your self esteem.