i know it sounds weird but it’s true and I’m so lost idk what to do
my friend and i text a lot and they once asked me if i like them and i genuinely thought they meant as friends and said yes so they said they like me back and we continued the conversation normally, it’s pretty normal for me to express my love to my friends like saying i love you and stuff and we do that sometimes too
but today we were talking and they said if you ever find someone it’s okay don’t think of me be with them and i was so shocked because i realized that they think we’re in a relationship and idk what to do anymore
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If you spent good time together, keep the person..
You will start valuing them once you lose them
I’m guessing this is an online thing?
If so I’m not sure you need to do much. Just if they go to cross lines state I’m not comfortable with this. If
ahahah, NO OP, i don’t think that’s how it works,
maybe you tell them (you gotta tell them) that you meant ‘I love you’ platonically and not romantically- (not in a way they took)(If that’s how you meant)
>!You don’t have to get into a relationship just bcs you love them and afraid that you might lose them by telling them truth!<
I’d say to clear things up, and let them know you weren’t aware you guys were in a relationship. It isn’t an easy/straightforward solution, but it would be better than them being led on for too long.