I got married in a arrange marriage, ama

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Got married in 2021, never met him before the engagement (which was 3 days before the wedding) I’m Yemeni American, and he’s just Yemeni. We currently have a toddler together, ask me anything.

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  1. Clever-Anna Avatar

    Were you attracted to him right away? How did you grow that if not?

  2. snowsparkle7 Avatar

    Is your husband a good person? Do you like him? 
    What were the options if you didn’t?
    What would have happened if you didn’t accept an arranged marriage.at all?  

  3. gaaren-gra-bagol Avatar

    Are you okay with all this? Did you do the deed right after the wedding?

  4. Itsshatevrr19 Avatar

    lol I was in an arranged marriage and got married at 17. Didn’t even have an IG or a phone super old school. We ended up leaving each other after 6 years and now I’m single and don’t know how to date

  5. NoContextCarl Avatar

    How was the peen lotto?

  6. sebastian0328 Avatar

    How was the first night?

  7. Still-Thing8031 Avatar

    1: What is the deal with arranged marriages, is it religious or cultural?
    2: What happens if one of you doesn’t like the other, can you get out of it?

  8. itsthekumar Avatar

    What made you want to get an arranged marriage vs dating or even trying via your family/friends network in the US?

  9. seekyapus Avatar

    Was your husband the first man you had intimacy with, and did you meet him and spend time with him before the marriage?

  10. sonofasnitchh Avatar

    How well did you know him before you got married, or was the first time you met at the wedding?

    Edit – d’oh I just re-read the post and saw you literally said this 🤦‍♀️

    Instead, may I ask what the process of agreeing was like for you? What did you know about him before you agreed to marry him? was it a situation where he proposed and you accepted and that was it? Did you know anything about him before you met him?

  11. beijinglee Avatar

    whats your take on arranged marriage vs love marriage

  12. Ummimmina Avatar

    Awesome!!! Hi from another Arab-American family (White American convert & Saudi) Southern Saudi and some Yemeni so Hi from the same mix!
    My advice is not to care what they say. So many people love and are happy in arranged marriages. It’s not as weird as they think.
    Happy parenting to you and Eid Mubarak!

  13. DangerousClouds Avatar

    Where do you live? Like what country

  14. meelatalha Avatar

    How was your first week with communication? Did you have many common interests?

  15. montemason Avatar

    What’s your age difference?