So I just moved back home (actually I was invited back home) and was staying with my mom and her pervy husband.
The plan was to stay a couple weeks and save up for my own place. My mom said that instead of giving her rent, she just needs me to drive her to and from appointments every now and then (she has cataracts).
A couple weeks in, my mother’s husband started sneaking into my room at night. At first he wasn’t doing anything, but I’d still pretend to role over in my sleep just to spook him into leaving (and I was in shock). On the last night I felt him basically rubbing my thigh while I slept, so I screamed and cussed him out, waking up my mom in the process.
She kicked me out the next day and said she would handle it. I haven’t heard from her since and that was 2 weeks ago. Now I’m living out of airbnbs and I’m running out of money. I was able to secure a room for May 1st, but I just need help extending the current airbnb that I’m in. She knows everything that’s going on, but has fully expressed that it’s my problem and she couldn’t care less.
I chose to stay here because 1: I was in a state of panic and 2: Getting a room on Airbnb was cheaper than a motel or hotel in my area and I had already spent what I had on first and last for my place in May.
I’m stressing out and I don’t know what else to do, I have to checkout of here tomorrow morning (unless I can extend it before then). I’m scared and quite frankly embarrassed as fck. At first my ex boyfriend was helping me, but he just made it feel like it was my fault so I left him. Anyways that’s basically it, all because of this piece of sht perve.
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Check social services in your area, ask if they know of any charities or places you could crash for the night. Speak to the local police or fire department as well as they also typically have resources available. Sometimes churches can also have resources, but I’d only try that as a second to last resort. The absolute last resort is finding a safe place to sleep in your car. Ask the police/fire if there’s a place to do so, and what the laws are on that. It’s important to know.
I wish you luck. Your mother’s husband sounds like a creep and your mother sounds like an idiot. Cut them both out.