I (teen f indian ) got impregnated by a man twice my age, he abused me sexually( when i was 17, i am 18 now). It was my mistake , i shouldn’t have believed him, my own friends blamed me, i don’t have friends, i am pretty introverted and honestly i just feel bad for myself for being so dumb, not knowing any better. but still I do not want to hear other people’s judgement, I might have been wrong but wasn’t he too ? Who’s giving a man the right to behave like this ? So he’s never wrong but i lacked my senses so i deserve it ? Who’s deciding what one deserves and not ? I have realised that most people just love to blame or see the other person suffer, i do not want anyone’s empathy or help but i am hated for merely being the way i am , they do act like they care but that it is just to feel superior and fulfill their god complex. I thought he was being nice or helping me but he deceived me , i am feeling terrible, betrayed and anxious. He’s so shameless , i am appalled by how shameless a person can be. my parents are not alive, i did file a case.
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I’m so sorry that your friends blamed you instead of being understanding. No one deserves that. It’s not your fault at all, and don’t let anyone try to convince you that it is.
Peace be with you, my sister.
~N
I’m so sorry you went through this. None of this is your fault. You were taken advantage of by someone who knew exactly what they were doing. Trusting someone doesn’t make you dumb — it makes us human. The people blaming you are wrong, and it’s okay to feel betrayed and angry. You didn’t deserve what happened, and you don’t deserve to carry the weight of other people’s cruelty either. You have every right to your voice, your story, and your healing. I hope you continue to stay strong. You’re not alone