I grew up in scientology AMA

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hello! I, (19f) got bored so i thought i would post an AMA post as it has officially been 2 years since i left scientology any and all questions are welcome to be asked and i will try to answer every question the best i can ! ( note i will not answer too many personal questions but most are fine to ask)

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  1. whyamihere004 Avatar

    Share one belief from scientology

  2. dangerdrago Avatar

    As someone with an open mind and an open heart, a quick run down of Scientology itself would be great. Also what made you leave. Please.

  3. FL_dude12 Avatar

    Are you “spiritual” at any level any more? Do you see it as a cult?

  4. ogbudmone Avatar

    How has your relationship with your family been since leaving?

  5. snltoonces12 Avatar

    How is Lord Xenu doing these days?? Is Tom Cruise considered some kind of prophet? Your thoughts on South Park marathons?

  6. Hefty-Narwhal1830 Avatar

    I found the anti-Scientology shows and documentaries fascinating. Are the disconnection policies and strict as depicted? Also, I no longer consider myself Catholic. However, there are aspects of Catholicism that will stay with me, in a positive way, forever. Are there any tenants of Scientology that will stay with you and you still believe?

  7. onyoniniminonyon Avatar

    What do they think of Jesus Christ?

  8. Bluemistake2 Avatar

    Any weird sex cult stuff that goes on?

  9. El_Mid Avatar

    Have you ever met any of the celebrities that are part of Scientology?
    What do you think has happened to Shelly Miscavage?

  10. LazySleepyPanda Avatar

    How hard is it to get out ? Do they blackmail you to stay ?

  11. mokkkko Avatar

    Do you like Pokémon?

  12. Delde116 Avatar

    I know that if you leave some members basically bully you endlessly. Has that happened so far?

  13. Johnny007_America Avatar

    I have heard that members live in shared apartments within scientology. So how does dating / sex life before marriage work?

  14. FlobeeFresh Avatar

    What was the title of the book that changed your mind about Scientology and why were you open to reading and internalizing it?

  15. OkStudent8107 Avatar

    How are women treated in Scientology?

  16. Sunandmoon2211 Avatar

    Growing up, did you get audited with an e-meter, when you were upset or physically hurt?

  17. SunWooden2681 Avatar

    Did you go to school?

  18. neuro2025 Avatar

    How much money does the member have to pay per year?

  19. Stunning-Attitude366 Avatar

    How do they justify cutting off family if you’re no longer involved. Surely love is more important?

  20. YoureQuiteHostile Avatar

    At only 19, would it be safe to say you hadn’t made it very far up the “ranks”, thus know very little, or at least only slightly more than someone who isn’t involved? I’ve heard through more than one source, you ascend in Scientology mostly through donations to the cause. How accurate is this?

  21. hervejl Avatar

    Did you hear about any politicians being part of Scientology? Do you think they try to expand to politics, or not at all?

  22. Brilliant_Ad2120 Avatar

    What are you most proud of doing since leaving Scientology?!Any big culture shocks

    And are you (and other Scientologists) big fans of science fiction?

  23. Birch_mom72 Avatar

    So parents regularly just stop all contact with their kids if they leave? So awful.

  24. bleedingpearl Avatar

    how is this the post that got 2 people to flirt with me bye

  25. elanplants Avatar

    Same, girl. Glad you got out of there. It destroyed my family.

  26. sourcreamus Avatar

    Did you find the clay stuff helpful in your education?

  27. elcartero86 Avatar

    Do you have any notion of how big the membership is? I’ve read that what they claim is massively exaggerated and at most large events they have to fill it out with actors.

  28. Mediocre-Catch9580 Avatar

    What’s Tom Cruise like?

  29. BarbedWire3 Avatar

    Are u allowed to have a bf while in their system? Or u got one only after leaving them?

  30. Weekly_Victory1166 Avatar

    What got me in at first was the low-level stuff like arc, tone scale, etc., which still makes sense to me. Liked fot, too. Worked on staff for a bit, met Ron Miscavige Sr., who was really nice. Met his son Dave once, who seemed to be a bit of a hard-a–, who was already in the Sea Org (actually all the so folks seemed way way too serious). Philadelphia Free Library has some really good books about scn, you might check out their online catalog for titles. Congrats on surviving, now enjoy your freedom and have some fun. Take care.

  31. M_Shulman Avatar

    How much focus is there on L Ron these days? And how about David Miscavage? Are they Pope-like figures in the church?

  32. ProofRepair2344 Avatar

    How does a scientology party look like?

  33. spandexvalet Avatar

    are cowboy boots good for everyday use?

  34. stavis23 Avatar

    Stay safe dude, one love

  35. Master-Database2729 Avatar

    Why don’t people who practice Scientology go to the doctor or take any medicine, vitamins, pain relievers, etc? I have a friend who is deep into Scientology and she refuses to go to the doctor or take a simple Advil.

  36. CreepBasementDweller Avatar

    How exactly is Lord Xenu still alive after billions of years?

  37. srosyballz Avatar

    I also left a cult. Have you considered the possibility of spirituality without the need for religion or dogma? I find myself aligning much more with gnosticism these days after a hard cutoff from anything “spiritual” for years, realizing it was my trauma from my cult wanting me to cut everything off and almost subscribe to science as my new “religion”/belief-system.

  38. Ok-Ear-7364 Avatar

    Is the South Park episode on Scientology accurate?

  39. amanning072 Avatar

    My parents bought a beach house a few years ago and one of the books that was left from the previous owner was Dianetics from 1986. There is a self-addressed postcard inside it from 40 Years ago which you mail to request more info about Scientology.

    Should I mail it in 2025? I have a photo for anyone who doesn’t believe me.

  40. Pancernywiatrak Avatar

    How were you able to leave?

  41. Much-Sock2529 Avatar

    In another comment you described the group as a cult. How do you define a cult, and do you think all religions are cults to some extent or are cults something very distinct? 

  42. Baby_Bing200 Avatar

    How were you even so foolish enough to join in the first place?

  43. CapComplete2572 Avatar

    Did you guys live in like a commune or did people just live anywhere and have meetings like ‘church every Sunday’ type of thing?

  44. Hot_Engineer_9018 Avatar

    Who is getting the donations? Or what is it for? I’m totally new on this and find it so interesting. And how does it work? Like your day to day? Do your parents work in the day and then in the evening go to meetings and such etc?

  45. Shqiptar89 Avatar

    Is the Xenu thing an actual part of the religion? 

  46. East_Agency_8330 Avatar

    What happenes if you leave my bread in toster for trillions of years and 40 days AND 40 nights? Seriously what happenes. And the toster is at level 10 on burning heat level. And is sientology like science?

  47. pleasecallmeSamuel Avatar

    As a fan of science fiction literature myself who doesn’t know too much about scientology, what is the church’s consensus on L. Ron Hubbard’s science fiction novels like? Are they a significant part of the church’s teachings?

  48. skepticallobster Avatar

    Were you in the sea org? And did your family also leave or were they forced to disconnect from you (apologies if that’s not the correct term)?

  49. afterskull Avatar

    When does a child that is born into Scientology decide to convert, and how does one official accept membership if they are born into Scientology?

  50. Next-Ad3196 Avatar

    Do they like black people? Who aren’t rich?

  51. Drewski34 Avatar

    How far up the bridge did you get? (I watch a lot of YouTube channels from ex scientologists.)

  52. maturin_nj Avatar

    What an unfortunate bad start you got off to, which is no fault of your own. Life is hard enough than to spend your early formative years in an MLM cult  which was started by a mediocre science fiction writer to make bank. 

  53. Familiar_Badger4401 Avatar

    What do you think about the sexual abuse allegations of underage girls?

  54. Acrobatic_Box9087 Avatar

    I am the evil Lord Xenu. You will be punished for leaving. I will pump 100,000 thetans into your brain.

  55. PrincessaLinda Avatar

    Do people in Scientology realize how weird and creepy the rest of the world finds this cult? Or are they so insular that they don’t have a sense of that?

  56. JesterTTT Avatar

    Several years back.