that’s pretty much it. I knew I was pregnant, didn’t want to be, had an appt at the clinic scheduled. Guess I can cancel that now lol
We’re all standing in the reception hall and I excuse myself to the bathroom for a breather. Was feeling extremely emotional about a man who was not a great father, wondering why – ah. Ok. I guess.
I kept it to myself and went back out to support my friend, and have just been sitting on it for six hours… I’m not entirely sure what to do, but I know it wouldn’t be appropriate to discuss it in that setting.
I just needed to tell someone. Thanks for listening yall.
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Wow. Well as a nurse I’ve learned not every pregnancy is planned or wanted, and yet it doesn’t quite feel like congratulations are in order 😂 I’m sorry you had to have this happen while at a sad place. I hope he rest of this is fairly easy. How many weeks were you at?
Seeing a doctor would be a good idea to make sure nothing was left behind.
I am a guy, but I empathize with you. It’s emotional and tough even if it ends up being for the best.
:soft internet hug:
That’s a pretty emotional day. Right now you’re hormonal too, be aware. You’re gonna cry, be ok, lay down, be up, be tired, cry. Are you seeing a doctor? Let them know and or be seen. To make sure you’re ok. Sorry.
I recommend seeing a doctor. There is a thing called an incomplete miscarriage. If part of the corpse or other contents of the uterus did not get pushed out, they can cause serious health issues:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK559071/
https://myhealth.alberta.ca/Health/aftercareinformation/pages/conditions.aspx?hwid=uh2809
I had this happen while I was at my best friends wake.
I always said he knew what he was doing & he did me a huge favor lol
U manifested your desire
I’m so sorry
I am so sorry- I had 3 but always went to the dr. He always wanted to make sure the miscarriage was complete or if a D and C would be needed
Sweetheart, holy fuck you’re an exceptional friend.
Oh wow, that’s a terrible situation to be in, (hugs)
If you are in a US state that may charge you with a crime for having a miscarriage, please be careful.
Well, that is a lot to happen in one day. How’re you doing?
I would recommend a doctor asap as well. I fully bled like a period through the first 3 months of my second pregnancy
Sending you a quiet little corner of the internet to breathe. You’re not alone❤️ hugsss
Still see a doctor…
a miscarriage really sucks even if you didn’t want it
i’m sorry
Sorry for your loss
That’s a big, emotional day with a lot of conflicting emotions. I hope you’re ok. ✨️
It’s emotional but im a little confused. At that time frame in a pregnancy a miscarriage isn’t a spontaneous thing that happens all within a few minutes. It’s days of your body expelling.
If this is true and you feel you just had a few minute event and it’s all done I would 100% see a doctor because there maybe be elements left inside.
If it’s not true I’m still sorry that you felt the need to make this post. Life is hard and if this is the way you feel you need to get support I hope you find some supports in real life around you.
Good luck!
Oh honey, I’m sorry that this happened. I know you didn’t want the baby but I’m sure it was still pretty traumatic. Make sure to see your gynecologist for a follow up. Take care!
Not a female so…
I hope you are ok mentally and might want to schedule a appt with a doctor just to make sure physically. Self care. Do something for yourself that you enjoy. Be well.
Even though you didn’t want to be pregnant, going through the miscarriage is still hard on you emotionally, hormonally, and physically. I’m sure you have very mixed emotions on an already sad day. Allow yourself to feel all the ways!
You’re extremely strong to handle things the way you did in that setting. Now go see a doctor to make sure everything is out and nothing else needs to be done, get the IUD like you mentioned, and please talk to someone and a therapist to process your emotions,