He was her ex but now they’re talking again and holyshit how much I hate that guy. It’s not for no reason he treats her horrible he just “talks nicely and promised to change” so she went back to him.
She told me to watch over her so she doesn’t make bad decisions but everytime I criticise him she’s telling me I’m too negative and I should stop. So how am I going “watch over” you fr? I can pretend I like him but it’ll never be real.
He’s irritating, manipulative, just not a good person. He even yelled at her multiple times to the point I kicked him out of our apartment. He’s not a good person. She said she’d take him back slowly but it’s going way quicker and it feels like she’d literally rather be mad with me and defend him rather than see reality.
I’ve been in a toxic relationship before and I know what it’s like, she was too in another toxic relationship and that other time I didn’t tell her anything and I regret that. I know that it’s hard to get out of this mindset but I’ve never been mean to any of my friends who told me to leave that guy.
I don’t have to like the guy and I know it’s important to her that I will but he’s seriously despicable. How to handle this situation? I feel like it’s going to put distance between us. We’re like sisters.