When I was young(8) I was 🍇 by my brother who was an adolescent
I understand he made a mistake then but it wasn’t a one off thing. Only stopped when I told my mum about it.
Over the years, my brother has become extremely manipulative
He is their golden child while I’m the black sheep they hate.
At 28(about a year ago) I started taking therapy
My parents found out and started acting very loving saying they’re taking me on a birthday trip I said ok but don’t want my brother as I’m in the middle of reprocessing and it’s difficult to see him at the moment.
Well a day after my birthday they called him as a surprise
And then started gaslighting me for taking therapy accusing me of being jealous of him and lying about self harm.
I hate all of them.
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Oh god, I’m so sorry for what you went through there. If I were you, I’d just leave and never talk to them. Ofc I don’t know the circumstances, but, please tell me that you’re fine right now. Don’t take it out on yourself please, it’s not your fault at all. I wish you all the best, if you ever want to talk, don’t hesitate to reach-out.
it sounds like they are worried about the disclosure being reported and golden boy being in trouble. it always amazes me how somone can claim to be a parent yet chick another of the children under a bus to save the other. It doesn’t sound like you got any justice op.. it sounds like they just rug swept and thats where they want everything to stay.