I barely fill an a cup bra. I’m not tiny in general (wide torso. wide shoulders.) so they’re not even proportional to my body. They don’t look good at all. They serve no purpose for me. They’re just an inconvenience.
Like, I’m not even sporty. I don’t do much exercise aside from going to my 9-5. I like sleeping on my side, not my belly. My shirts all fit wrong. My tiny tits are annoying and useless.
Even worse, the one guy I thought might actually like them admitted a couple days back that he would prefer I had huge ones. He said if I thought of boob surgery so often I should just save up and go for it.
I want to so bad. I actually am starting to save up, but I didn’t want to admit it to him.
I’ve long accepted that my small boobs aren’t attractive. This isn’t a post where I’m looking for any comfort or any “omg nooo love your body!” support (don’t get me wrong, those comments are very nice. I’m glad to see niceness like that in posts that are looking my for comfort). I literally just wanted to get my bottled up self hate off my chest atm haha
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Oh! Not to mention I have back problems already without even a b cup. 🙂 my body is so fucking annoying.
1,personality over body when it comes to love
2 ,self love over validation and
3 the choice is yours ,but it’s not always right
Girl I got a wide rib cage, broad shoulders, I’m short, I have back problems, and I have small ass boobs too so I get ya, plus we’re the same age lol. When you realize your body is a temple, YOUR temple, you learn to be kinder to it. It’s the only home your soul has, so if you can’t love it, at least try to honor it. I’m in the same boat but I’ve been learning to love it all.
Also, don’t ever let a man suggest what to do with your body. A real man wouldn’t tell you that and I’m sorry he did.
I used to feel that way about my body. Once you accept it and find clothes that fit your figure I think you’ll think more positively about them. You sound pretty young, I didn’t really start to feel secure about them until I was a senior in high school.
First of all, you have my sympathy. But secondly, how old are you? Mine decided to grow when I was longer in the tooth than one would expect. I think it was hormonal changes based on the time-line. They showed up around 26.
You should never say that; there are a lot of people who love small/tiny boobs (me 😏).
Anyway, my girlfriend has small tits; it’s actually so cute. I love them and her, of course. You still haven’t found your guy. I’m so certain you’ll find someone who loves you and your body. Please don’t put plastic in your body; after a while, it’ll ruin your self-confidence and body. Every woman possesses her own unique beauty, and all are stunning in their own way.
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that guy sucks btw! don’t stay around ppl like that omg
hella biased here as a bi woman but if you swing my way tiny tits are hot. i got em too and my bf can’t get enough! guarantee the right guy will find ya if u only like fellas.
Don’t be with a man that puts you down like that and tells you he’d prefer something else. If he prefers something else then good riddance, he can try his luck finding it, but never again should he be allowed with you. As a girl with big boobs, trust me that the grass is always greener. It comes with its own set of problems and insecurities, but I understand where you’re coming from. Please please please be with a man that loves, values and respects you, not one who only sees you for your body. You’re wrong that small boobs are unattractive.
Tiny boobs are just as sexy as big boobs, you need to find the right person. He isn’t the right person, the right person wouldn’t suggest major surgery for his own enjoyment.
Boobs come in all shapes and sizes, and they’re all sexy, speaking as a bisexual who doesn’t have a type.
The right person will love you and your boobs just the way they are. They won’t make you feel self conscious, self loathing and lower your self esteem.
The right person will assure you that they love you just the way you are, and if you genuinely want a boob job for you, will support you, however they will assure you that they love you either way. They won’t pressure you or make you feel bad, or try to pressure you to conform to their preference.
It’s absolutely fine to have a preference, what isn’t OK is pressuring someone to change themselves surgically or otherwise to fit their preferences because I can guarantee it won’t stop at getting a boob job.