I hate people who take back cheaters and be doormats.

Cheating stories are my favorite things to hear when I look at Reddit, but there are several different stories that should center about some important highlights that the original posters overlook sometimes such as the user named u/WifeHadAnAffair I need to vent regarding his story.

I remember listening to this story multiple times after struggling to find it for months. I finally found it, but I do hope the OP can read this and come to his senses regarding a future divorce. I feel sorry for you man, not only for the way your should have been ex-wife cheated but also for how you didn’t realize that you need to be a real man. Your wife cheated on you with zero remorse only until she was caught after having an affair for months, played around with you and your mom’s trauma from your dad’s affair after she thought it was a game, and for letting your love for her blind you at the fact that you were overlooking the reality that your wife confessed to the affair and in details later on because she felt obligated to after she felt scared by your AP’s wife and you when you gave her a second chance to come clean, not out of remorse.

I cannot imagine how disrespected your mom felt when your wife cheated and made you go through the same pain your mom felt. Your wife played the part of the home wrecker and had no issues causing trauma to someone else and somehow finding no issues with how her AP was talking badly about his wife and kids. It was infuriating to listen how the AP’s wife had more balls than you OP, staying married with the cheater who caused trauma to everyone is a spineless doormat move. Given how your wife behaved towards the AP’s rant about his wife and kids she would have divorced you if the roles were reversed. OP, please consider divorce because you opened yourself up to be everyone’s emotional punching bag because you can’t stand up for yourself. Evident by how you still say your father never forgave for the cheating instead of fighting it and took his words to heart, you prioritized his feelings over your own, same goes for your wife you unfortunately took back after she broke her vows to you. You bend over backwards to please the two people that wronged you horribly and honestly your wife should consider herself lucky to not have been cut off completely by your mom who she saw as a motherly figure. It infuriates that in stories like this that the OP doesn’t have anything to hold him back from divorcing his unfaithful spouse.

This my message to you OP the next time she cheats don’t take her back!