So I work in an office environment . Besides her, Everyone has an office. She’s the receptionist/Office Specialist. She’s started working here a year ago after the last cat lady receptionist quit. We Started talking little chit chat. She’s married btw. Anyways, we went from chit chat to having lunch together all the time and she calls me “Work bestie” I noticed she’s starting looking at me differently, you know the look you get when you see someone you like. One day during lunch she was looking at me and said in Spanish (we’re both latinos) something along the lines of “I want to kiss your lips” I was whaaat. But tried to play it cool. I said I been told I have nice kissable lips. She then tried to cover her comment by saying that’ she heard grandma say that when she was little. We started texting and pretty much we make excuses to get out of the office to be together. She now started complaining about how her husband piss her off. One day while going to get coffee I said, it sucks that we only get to spend time together at work. I said it would be nice to spend time together off the clock. I immediately regretted my comment, but she quickly agreed and said it was a good idea, she went as far as saying we can take a Friday off and drive to another city. It was cold, she said to wait until the weather was nice. Now the weather is perfect. I also noticed when Im driving she leans towards me, and always laughs at my corny jokes. I really like her. Like I think about her often. But, I don’t want to ruin our friendship or get rejected taking in consideration she’s unhappily married. Does she feel the same way I do? What should I do?
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Her biggest problem is she is married and for anything that you hope to have with her can’t happen until she’s separates, unless you’re okay with her cheating with you?.
There’s no point in giving you advice and telling you what the best thing to do. Because you’ve already made the worst decisions.
You’re actively shitting where you eat.
And you are encouraging her to cheat on her husband. Yes, she’s already cheating on her husband. While you’re not the cause of it, you actively encouraging it.
“One day while going to get coffee I said, it sucks that we only get to spend time together at work. I said it would be nice to spend time together off the clock.” You tell yourself that you regret saying it but then, turn around and do exactly what you regret saying? Cmon man lol. You don’t regret anything.
Come to think of it, maybe both of you guys deserve each other.
Never shit where you eat. Keep it professional or find a different job
She’s married my dude. If you get in a relationship with her, she will most likely do the same to you. Because those who betray once, betray twice…
Plus you will then have a time bomb on your hands, since you both work at the same place.
But seems like your decision is taken, and i wish you both the best.
You’re already in trouble, and a homewrecker. You perfectly knew what you’ve doing.